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Canon Bob
24-12-2007, 08:54
I had four hours to kill before a flight yesterday and parked up in a small industrial complex near Charles de Gaulle airport for a quiet read. I was dragged out of my solitude by the sound of a large corrugated box being dragged along the tarmac and past my window and then treated to the site of an old tramp buidling his abode for the impending cold night.
This construction took place directly in front of my car and only about three to four metres distant....a fascinating window on a wholly different existence. At some point it became clear that some rudimentry tools would be beneficial and I felt compelled to offer temporary use of some basic tackle from my toolbox.
Initially Monsuir "le constructeur" ignored my offering (and even my presence). After several minutes, he took the meagre offering without a word and carried on with his task.
I attempted to engage in a little conversation...cold nights, quiet location etc but the responses were slow to emerge. I requested that I be allowed to take his photograph but this was met with a firm refusal.
I continued watching the progress and studied him closely...fascinated and, in hindsight, a little too invasive.
Very belatedly I introduced myself and he responded..."Albert". At a guess he was somewhere between 55 and 75 years old...guessing age it isn't my strong point and this type of lifestyle isn't always kind to the appearance. It struck me that Albert was clean and had made some effort to appear presentable despite his clothes and situation he existed in. The ice was melting a little and it became clear that he was quite educated and spoke English better than I speak French.
Albert will spend his Christmas in the box...he won't go to a hostel as they have too many drug addicts and they steal things....not that he had too much to be deprived off from my assessment.
We wished each other a merry Christmas and parted. I now realise that Albert was not a "tramp", he was a gentleman. He doesn't need or want my pity, he just needs a chance and a reason.
Tomorrow morning, I'll be sitting in a warm house, I'll be with someone I love and I'll be loosening my belt in anticipation of the oversized culinary offering that will appear from the kitchen on cue. I don't give these things a second thought, they just happen....always have, always will (?)
I'll be toasting Monsuir Albert tomorrow. I'll be thinking of the things that I HAVE got, not the the things that I DIDN'T get. He taught me more in fifteen minutes that I have learned in a long time....and he's not even aware of it. By next week Albert will probably have forgotten me but I will remember him for a long time to come.
Bob

Dark Star
24-12-2007, 08:58
Fantastic post Bob! It has stopped and made me think, and thats a good thing!

Have a good one and give me a shout when you are passing Tamworth!

John

BRASH
24-12-2007, 09:21
Fascinating experience. It often takes the simplest of things to humble us and make us realise how lucky we are.

birdy961
24-12-2007, 09:24
A humbling experience Bob:(
Let us all spare a few moments thought for those who do not have a home this Christmas.

Lady Pitstop
24-12-2007, 09:56
Certainly puts things into perspective and make you realise how much we take for granted.

Phil T
24-12-2007, 10:19
Touching story Bob - I'll raise a glass to Monsieur Albert tomorrow...

photostar_1
24-12-2007, 10:22
Touching story Bob - I'll raise a glass to Monsieur Albert tomorrow...

Me too! Thanks for sharing this with us.

InaGlo
24-12-2007, 10:26
Its stories such as these that are often the timely reminders that we need of what is truly important in life, especially while we get caught up in all the hype, and materialism that surrounds us all at this time of year.

Wolverhampton lost its own 'Gentleman of the streets' a few months ago.
Again he was someone who had chosen to live life on the edge of society .... in his case in a tent, on a grassed traffic island, in the middle of town ... for 40 years!

Josef Stawinoga, aka 'Freddie' died in October, aged around 83 ... not a bad age for someone who hasnt been indulged with comforts and neccessities we all need to survive these days.

Unlike you Bob, I never actually met 'Freddie' but I saw him regularly as I passed through town, and like you, seeing his chosen way of life always humbled me and affected my thoughts throughout the day.

Thanks for sharing your story of how Albert touched you, Bob.
... and for reminding me of all the 'Freddie's' of the world . :thumbs:

Canon Bob
24-12-2007, 11:31
Thanks everyone....although it was a fairly brief personal encounter, I thought other's might reflect on their "positions" as I have.

Bob

minimeeze
24-12-2007, 12:06
What a touching and humbling story. I was only saying yesterday how materialistic and greedy society has become. We can all learn a lesson from the Alberts and Freddies of this world.

Les McLean
24-12-2007, 12:25
Thanks Bob, it puts most things in a true perspective.

antc
24-12-2007, 17:54
Certainly puts things into perspective and make you realise how much we take for granted.

It certainly does. I too shall raise a glass to Monsieur Albert tomorrow.

HanC
24-12-2007, 18:14
Too right, iv always thought about working at christmas in a homeless shelter in London or somewhere similar but never got round to it, i really must sort it out for next year. situations like this make you think twice about how lucky you are and how we must be aware of those that aren't quite so blessed :)

Galaxy66
26-12-2007, 23:26
Bob, just read your compassionate post today after posting mine with similar sentiments.
It is heartening to read the replies from both postings.

Thanks to all, Mal.

Canon Bob
27-12-2007, 05:31
Bob, just read your compassionate post today after posting mine with similar sentiments.
It is heartening to read the replies from both postings.
Thanks to all, Mal.

Mal,

It is, perhaps, a good indication of what we've become when you look at your post versus "What's in your stable"..ie, show us your cars/bikes etc.

Spare a thought...13 posts and 150 viewings
What's in your stable...56 posts and 630+ viewings

Bob

Please note...this was in no way intended to be criticism of readers or posters.

Rhodese
27-12-2007, 15:33
What a great post and great timing, it may or may not be his chosen way of life but at this time of year there are many folk homeless and a kind thought and a few bob in a charity box goes a long way to easing their plight.
In reference to Inaglo’s post about Josef Stawinoga (Fred) he was probably one of the most photographed men in Wolves his image would turn up in club slide and print battles time and time again, have a look at this story about him and I think you see why he was such a great subject.

http://www.expressandstar.com/2007/10/29/ring-road-tramp-fred-dies/

http://www.expressandstar.com/2007/10/29/freds-life-in-pictures/

Compliments of the season to you all and a happy new year.
All the best Rhodese.