Recent content by Notts_Dave

Hi All, does anyone have any experiance of using a company called Low Cost Holidays or another called On The Beach? I've always used Thomson for my holidays but I've seen these two on Google. Any comments, good or bad welcomed.

Thanks, Already things are changing and my future looks brighter than it did a week ago.

Thats what i'm doing tonight. D8 downloaded and will be handed into the courthouse Monday or Tuesday. Starting MY healing process.

Yes indeed. Today after two weeks of sulking, crying, wondering what I did wrong etc etc I have today realised the old cliche is true... Today IS the first day of the rest of my life ! What helped me when I first had the news of the affair was to keep a diary. Not for anyone elses benifit but...

I moved out because I can't afford to keep the place on my own salary and she put £40K into the purchase when we bought it so in effect its mostly hers anyway. Moved back to my parents 26 years after leaving, not at the age of 26 KIPAX.

When I my wife confessed her affair to me I posted a shout on here to get stuff off my chest and many many of you posted messages of support, for which I thank you all. Heres the update. We tried and tried to work stuff out. We had a holiday booked for ages and decided to use it as a make or...

Great link, I'll be studying that later after work.

Thanks for the feedback, it's all welcomed.

This is a shot i've played with in Elements. Levels and a bit of tweeking. Any comments? He's an ex-marine and ex-miner and I love the grittiness about his features.[/URL][/IMG]

Thanks for all the advice and supportive messages. I think for now, I'll go with the advice of Galaxy and leave the thread. Maybe an update in a few weeks/months. TTFN

At the moment I'm about 60% she will not be able to make the commitment, 30% she will and 10% I'll kick her out because I'm fed of of waiting for it. I couldn't just blow her out with out saying some of the reason for the affair may have been my fault so I'll try. If she tries then great if not...

I think she is sorry she cheated but not sorry for the reason she did so. That i believe is where the hard work is to be. As someone else posted, I believe its all too easy to bail on marriages these days. We are both taking steps to rekindle our love. D

Probably different , not necessarily better. I'm not frightened of life after divorce but I really want to spend life with her.

UPDATE: Late on Saturday evening she returned home and asked for forgiveness. I just need to get across to her that what she believed has been missing form our marriage that we had in the first few of the five we've been married is in actual fact quite simply "happy ever after" and that...

Hoochy1, love the SIG!