Same here. I have put my XT up for sale for top whack where it won't sell, mind games, buy the d750 and can't sell the XT, she will soon forget about it. I would only want it for the reach, with the available tele lenses over the XT and will use for the wildlife in garden, it will be too heavy for me to lug around, I would then keep the XT for going out. Well thats my plan. I have no interest in a D7100 or similar for reach, after using a D7000 then Fuji.
She may have put a spanner in the works for a pre Christmas purchase, as she mentioned last night buying a new TV for the dinning / lounge room. Watch this space.