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Where have I said I have no problem in this thread with mass deaths.
Once again, on a personal level let me say, both my children are probably in the at risk group, my wife's dad is in the at risk group, possibly I am (because of my age) in the at risk group and maybe my wife partly because of her age/health is in the at risk group.
That's all the close family I have, do you think I want to see any of them die?
Do you honestly think I don't care about them, let alone my neighbours and the wider community?
Perspective is key - I was chatting to a friend yesterday who may be at risk, but as she pointed out, how many people get diagnosed with terminal cancer each day... at the moment this is quite small scale. We are simply guessing how many will die, 1,000/5,000/20,000.... who knows yet, I do think some of this panic is un-warrented, remember that 98% of us will be perfectly ok.
I think back to my Nan who died 5 years ago aged 91. Had she been around now, she would have been at risk and quite probably die as a result, but then again at 91 anything could finish her off. So without trying to sound harsh or un-caring, something we should be more concerned about are 'healthy deaths' - that's far more scary. How many of the current deaths would have occured anyway in the next 6 months? To be clear, I am not saying that its all fine or have little sympathy, but trying to keep some perspective on things. The mother of a friend of mine who is 80+ has said she is not bothered about getting it, she has had a good life and will continue to live her life as she wants until the end which I thought was refreshing. As she said, if this doesnt get her, heart disease or cancer probably will!