Wheres the link thats kicked all of this off, I thought Rufus came across as a nice bloke tbh, his "d*** heads....lol" statement might just be in jest, a bit of banter and Im happy for banter, though his account seems to have disappeared again, I cant find the thread.
think i found it. the portrait learning curve.
I think I can see whats gone wrong and its probably something thats come over wrong and shouldnt have been posted in the C&C section if he expected just good comments. I think some comments got up his back and his responses were less than professional, more emotional. Unfortunately, things like this do happen, seen umpteen threads where someone has come over all cocky only to be shot down (everyone has Rufus, very very few post "amazing" photos - check their post history and you'll probably find their earliest threads (if they begun on TP) had miserable feedback, mine were - feel free to check mine back a few years. I posted crap, still do lol, but I have improved and that is what is about. Its not a race - the only person you are competing with, is yourself.
Its sad but it would be good if Rufus came back, took the comments on board (good for him to get the sale btw). Dont take the comments to heart, read them, see if you agree with them and then the next time you take a photograph, remember the comments, adjust your technique/position/poses accordingly and you'll think "damn, they were right" because the next photograph you take when you think about those comments and apply them to your technique, your shot will be so much better.