May be not much help, but the D80 grip for Nikon definitely uses batteries sequentially, left slot then right slot - advertises the fact. I have to say, as an amateur, it's not worth it for extra battery life alone; but for the increased ergonomics of the camera, it's priceless.
I took the battery grip off and replaced the original battery door last week - because I was shooting on the tripod entirely supported by the lens collar, and didn't think it'd matter. I found the camera nigh on uncomfortable, with my right hand little finger flailing in space... I find the D80 too small without the grip now. Maybe a D700 or even a D300 would be OK, but I hold the D80 by the grip more than I'd noticed.