Thanks, the first bit in bold makes sense, and how my brain is thinking. I kind of understand your second bit in terms of something like your example, however when it comes to something like a landscape it then falls apart again for me.
For example, if I'm taking a landsape on a FF camera and also an APS-C camera using the same effective focal length then the cameras are going to be in the same position, therefore one is not closer to the light than the other. I understand that the larger sensor gathers more light overall simply because it is bigger, but each section of both sensors captures the same amount of light.
To try an illustrate what I mean, if you assume rain is light and buckets are the photosites. If you have a FF sensor that is made up of a grid of 8 buckets wide and 6 buckets high and expose it to rain you may find that each bucket has collected roughly 5 litres each, 240 litres in total. If you remove the outer 'circle' of buckets you'd be left with a grid of 6 buckets wide and 4 buckets high. Whilst the total water is now 'only' 120 litres each bucket still has 5 litres in it, so each bucket has been exposed to the same amount of rain (light). This to me suggests that the shot noise of each 'bucket' would therefore be the same, and therefore dynamic range would be the same. I don't see what influence the removed outer buckets would have on the inner ones?
I'm clearly missing something in my logic, however I followed a link from the link David sent me above and it seems to confirm my suspicions.
In this link they're trying to demonstrate that a larger sensor has less noise, but there example shows otherwise. They themselves say there's not much difference initially however if they then downsample the larger sensor there's less noise. This suggests to me that it is not then necssarily true that larger sensors are better at noise handling (and DR) just becasue they are larger per se but it is either because they have bigger photosites and/or downsampled more for viewing.
I'm also still struggling to see why noise affects dynamic range. Reading the link that David posted about shot noise suggests that not all pixels are subject to noise, or at least the same degree, therefore in my head at least some pixles are subject to the brightest brights and some to the darkest darks and therefore have the same dynamic range. Yes a larger sensor may have more of the brightest brights and more of the darkest darks but AFAIK DR is not a measure of how mcuh brightness/darkness there is but simply the difference between the bright and dark parts.