Many sets come with ones you will never use.
Most film cameras seem to be flat head, and most digital cameras seem to be cross head.
There are five sizes of flat head I always use, about .7mm, 1mm, 1.5mm, 2mm and 3mm (can measure them if it is needed) and two sizes of cross head.
Other sizes are covered by "standard" screwdrivers, some filed thinner.
Other essentials are a lens spanner, fine point tweezers straight and angled, correct lubricants, LED ring light, head mounted magnifier, needle nose pliers, etc
I would avoid ones with a plastic handle one of my most used sizes the bit has started turning in the handle. Had several do it in the past too.
I don't like the ones with changeable bits, I find they are too fat.
On the smaller sizes it is also useful to have some with a long bit, about 2". Most are only about 1"
I have been looking fo a nice set of metal handled ones for a while now, and I agree it is not easy, especially as it seems many of the more expensive sets are just re-packaged cheaper sets, now going to try some I like the look of grip wise, and be prepared to file the tip to shape (most are just to thick)
Would be interested to know what you choose