OK I admit defeat, you just cant beat stupid!!! frod??????:banghead:
Don't give in. Just ignore anything unhelpful.
In reply to the "I want to do everything" you mention Richard,It does seem a little bland. Perhaps I should explain that, Photography is very new to me so I am at present unsure, if all or only certain types of picture taking will appeal too me.
so in a lot of ways I'm a bit like a puppy let out for the first time, I want to have ago at everything then make my mind up. may not be the best approach but it's the only one I have.
Not a bad approach. You're not looking to "go pro" so you can do what you want with your time.
Even after a number of years, I'm still refining what I like to shoot and will still try new things every so often (I do a 52 Week challenge, so that pushes me to try new stuff).
Everyone has to start somewhere, and not everyone has a particular idea of what they want to do/specialise in.
If you have arthritis, I'm guessing you won't be walking up hills for miles photographing landscapes, but there's lots you can do at home, so looking at macro and "table top photography" is a good place to start. You can do an awful lot with very little kit. And if you are doing that, you do want to spend a few pennies on some white and black cardboard for backgrounds, then you just need a few things to prop them up.
Here's a table top shot I did in my front room last year with no special lighting, just using a TV for the background. (Click the Flickr link to see the behind the scenes shot too)
Cold never bothered me by
Alistair Beavis, on Flickr
There's plenty you can do at home without having to go far or use expensive kit, it also means you learn stuff about light (direction and strength), shadows, angles, backgrounds, and composition. Learning this stuff in a controlled environment can help a lot when you are out and not in control of all the elements.
Everyone is still learning, no matter what level they are at, it's just some people forget where they started.
Hang in there. Perhaps explore some other areas of the forum, look for some inspiration and ideas to try.