I am a complete novice, and I used Adobe Fireworks (still learning photo shop), but heres what I did.
1:
I sharpened the photo overall.
2:
I copied the wine bottle and pasted over itself, and sharpened the wine bottle more.
3:
I then flattened all the bits into one image
4:
I copied the image and pasted on top of itself
5:
I cut a soft area out of the TOP photo, which deleted your dad
6:
I then blurred & darkend the top photo
This meant the hole where your dad WAS in the top photo is a window to the photo underneath, were your dad remains in focus and at the correct brightness etc.
For the second shot, I converted to Sepia.
Gary.