Thinking, thinking. So this here 365 is about me, but how much of me should I put out there? I could go for broke. Emo myself up and put the real me online through photos. My pitfalls, personal problems and what its really like being me on a day to day basis. Now I could do that, I mean how hard is it to discuss things with a web page? Its not really. But thinking about it real people do read it. You wouldn't do this in real life would you? "Hey random stranger. This is a photo of how messy my desk is. Here's another showing <insert random life problem here>." You don't do it. There are things you keep from people you've just met because you want to make a good impression. If I've been having a rubbish day do I bitch and whine about it online to people I don't know?
I just can't decide how to play this. If I'm not honest then I'm lying to myself to hide problems and also deceiving people about who I really am. Of course its great to simply show the best bits of your life but life isn't brilliant every single day of the week. I'm reminded of an episode of Scrubs, 'My lunch' A recurring character dies and has her organs donated to other patients that need them. However it turns out she had rabies and the patients also got that. 2 of them die and Dr Cox is feeling down. The 3rd one dies while Cox tries to save him. It completely floors him. It has to be one of the best episodes of the series simply because it shows just how real he is, how human he is. 3 minutes in 7 years of the show is all it takes. This is the clip from that episode.
I think it simply comes down to this. Is it better to be seen as a good photographer or a good photographer who despite flaws overcomes them all to get those good photos. Are Superheroes better when they're perfect or when they're flawed? At least thats one way of looking at it. People may just see the flaws, so why make them public?
Oh I completely get the silver lining. Turn a negative into a positive. But do I want people to see me differently? Do I want them to see the other side of me?
Pete, I hope your book has not been cancelled, I really do. Fingers crossed for you.
Gary.
Glad the wedding went ok... cant wait to see the tall ship pic's if you post any..
Really like the processing of Thursday and friday images..
Shutterman
Pete, a really enlightening post and I can see how stressful life can be for a pro tog. Sorry to hear about the HDR book, is there a chance you could still pull it back? (I'm actually using a web guide you wrote on HDR at the moment and its great!)
Lovely image for Thursday and at least the wedding went to plan? Do you enjoy the wedding side of toggin' as much as documentary?
Should be great to photograph the tall ships can't wait to see some of the images...
Really open post this one Pete, thanks
Sunday - Looked really busy, how many people were at the event itself?
Tuesday - After such a nice weekend, why are you writing that kind of crap? Chin up dude.
Cheer up dude, you've got some stunning pictures, and after looking on your website, I was really impressed. You're a great photographer.
Loved the idea of the 800 people What did you ask them? "Excuse me can I take a picture please?" Were people reluctant to say yes?
Were you nervous when you first started to and if so, how did you get round it!
Don't mean to sound rude but there's a difference between everyone feeling sad now and then and having depression. Try feeling empty, sad, down for 15 years and even at the height of your career when you're doing what you love you still feel that way. The funny thing is that I often feel like no-one wants to hear me whine about how crap I feel so I'd rather post something that's acceptable. "oh stop moaning. You take ace photos why so sad?" *sigh*
I've been through depression, be it only 6 months, but it was depression nonetheless. Not a nice time of my life, and I felt very much helpless, and I know I wouldn't want to go through it again.
I don't know how you feel, there are no doubt very few people on this forum who do. But I have a taster.
I believe that people's moods are like the weather. Sometimes it's sunny, sometimes its cloudy, and sometimes it tips it down and doesn't show any sign of stopping.
But it can't rain forever.
Hold on until the sun pokes through the clouds, and for that brief period that the sun shines wonderfully on your face, and you feel on top of the world, grab on as tight as possible, and keep that memory for when it rains.
I don't know how you'll take that, perhaps you'll be thankful, perhaps you'll be rude and ungrateful, but hey, take it or leave it.
I'm in no position to comment on your depression Pete, but I really hope you cheer up soon, of what i've spoke to you, you seem like a lovely guy. Who happens to be O.K at taking pictures (Sarcasm, you're fantastic tbh)
Don't mean to sound rude but there's a difference between everyone feeling sad now and then and having depression. Try feeling empty, sad, down for 15 years and even at the height of your career when you're doing what you love you still feel that way. The funny thing is that I often feel like no-one wants to hear me whine about how crap I feel so I'd rather post something that's acceptable. "oh stop moaning. You take ace photos why so sad?" *sigh*
Look forward to your update Pete. Your work is very different to everyone elses and it's nice to see something refreshing.
Sorry didn't want to belittle your feelings. You are right though, obviously a big difference between feeling sad, and having clinical depression, and "chin up" isn't going to cut the cake.
Leaves me in a pickle, as I want to reassure you somehow or leave it on a lighter note, but can't. I just hope one day you do come out of the tunnel and see the light.
Gary.
Nice scenes but they could really do with some colour on the odd shot.
Well thats just silly discussing something that isn't relevant to this project. This is my life I'm documenting and I'll do it as I see fit because its here for no other reason than for me. Oh and that photo was not dulled down in any way. It works better in B&W. I'm not discussing that photo any more in this thread because its pointless.
Not that silly, this Is a thread about your 365's after all. No ones saying you can't do It your way either just some of the street scenes look like they fit another technique other than the one you use the most on the photos. The ferry photos and landscapes could use some colour.
It was dulled...etc