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I've always been a firm believer in the Law of Thermodynamics
When people say "I hardly ever eat, and I exercise loads but it just won't shift", I find it hard to believe.
The rules are simple. Eat more calories than you burn, and you'll get fat...eat less and you'll lose weight...simple.
So how do we lose weight? Well we either eat less calories, or we burn more calories.
Doing it excessively is just silly, because as has been said, when you stop and revert back to normal, you'll just put the weight back on....we're back to thermodynamics again
What is needed is a lifestyle change, a PERMANENT one.
Now it sounds daunting but it isn't really.
If you tackle it a bit at a time, it really does become easy.
For example.
Switch from butter to low fat spread.
Dont fry: Instead bake, or use a griddle pan.
Or spread a little bit less on your toast.
Drop from 2 sugars in your tea to 1 and a half...then a few weeks later, to 1..then to half, then to none...Trust me it works. I used to drink tea with full fat milk and 2 sugars....and *hated* it otherwise, now I drink it with semi skimmed and no sugar.
It all takes time, after all you didnt put your weight on overnight, so don't expect to lose it overnight.
Also, another golden rule / misconception, is that you cannot spot reduce fat.
If you want to lose a bit of weight from your tum, bum, thigh or whatever, then just aim to lose weight.
You don't get to chose where that weight comes off...Your body genetics does.
You'll notice that men are predispositioned to putting weight on on their tummy first, ladies on their bums.
Well when you lose weight, it comes off in the reverse order it went on...so with men, chances are your tummy got bigger first...then your hips, then your thighs and bums....Well when you lose weight, your bum and thighs lose some first, then your hips, THEN your tummy....
If that makes sense. The only thing you can do is weighted exercise to tone up the area you are interested in