Over in WCMUT are posts about the decline in spelling and today another language-related issue came up and I found it really annoying. Has it come from the US ?
My wife and I went to a cafe today and sat at one of the outside tables. It was 12.10 so we just wanted a coffee each. Out comes the waitress..a very pleasant young lady ,about 18 years old, if that, who welcomed us with ''Hi guys'. We're both retired. I asked for two coffees. Then she asked if we were "eating today" I was very tempted to say.."yes, about 6.00pm" I didn't want to be sarcastic to her so just said 'no thanks' We got our coffees with an " enjoy". That also naffs me off.
We finished the coffees and asked to pay. A different young lady came over to the table and said "That's £6 today " Yes...lol..I was tempted to ask if that was more than yesterday or will it be cheaper tomorrow or just ask if the price varies from day to day. Of course, I didn't say that and as she gave us the change. (from a £10 note) she said "Thank you,have a nice day guys"
Ok..Yes, I'm old school. Re addressing us as 'guys'. As a youngster I had a few regular friends from about 5 years old right through to late teens and beyond and always addressed the parents as Mr or Mrs. It was Mrs and Mrs Whitby..Mr and Mrs Smith. These days some youngsters call their parents by their first names. If the customers are young people or even several 'guys' it's ok,I suppose but surely some flexibility should be exercised when serving obviously retired people. We're not doddery but clearly of pensionable age. We're old enough to be her grandparents.
Re "are you eating today ? " How about "Would you like me to bring the menu or lunch menu ?" Anything but "Are you eating today ?'