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I work with a life long friend and we have always been mates. We share interests outside of work and are good drinking buddies. Recently, his quality of work has been poor. I am responsible for checking the quality of his work. I have had several discussions with him over the past 8 months about what he needs to do to improve, and offered support. More-so recently as his father has just been diagnosed with terminal cancer.
In the past month he has made some very poor choices in work and has been breaking all the rules to get the job done.
My job has become so difficult checking, and returning his work that I had no option in speaking to higher management. We were in danger of missing all targets for the end of our business year in July. I really did it as a reach out to get him some support from the company and force him to take some time off. I know he is not himself. He refuses all support and just continues in his same ways.
My mate has now been suspended under a pending gross misconduct charge and is probably going to get sacked.
I feel absolutely awful. I don't know how I can face him. What am I going to say to him. He has a lovely family who are going through a really bad time at the moment. I really had no choice.
Not sure what im looking for in posting this. What would you have done in the same situation? Have I been a selfish tw**? Have I done the right thing?
Im not sleeping and left work almost in tears today.
In the past month he has made some very poor choices in work and has been breaking all the rules to get the job done.
My job has become so difficult checking, and returning his work that I had no option in speaking to higher management. We were in danger of missing all targets for the end of our business year in July. I really did it as a reach out to get him some support from the company and force him to take some time off. I know he is not himself. He refuses all support and just continues in his same ways.
My mate has now been suspended under a pending gross misconduct charge and is probably going to get sacked.
I feel absolutely awful. I don't know how I can face him. What am I going to say to him. He has a lovely family who are going through a really bad time at the moment. I really had no choice.
Not sure what im looking for in posting this. What would you have done in the same situation? Have I been a selfish tw**? Have I done the right thing?
Im not sleeping and left work almost in tears today.