... it would still focus with a 2.0x manually wouldn't it? but I was only thinking of getting a 1.7x. I have been looking up compatibility . Some sites say yes and others say no so guess they only way to really find out is a hands on try
No problem focusing manually, though the focus confirmation will only work in situations where the autofocus would also work.
It's hard to predict exactly what the camera will do with a 1.7x TC because Nikon themselves aren't very forthcoming. For some other manufacturers it's more straightforward because it's determined by the camera's firmware, and it's instructive to understand how they work because it sheds light on how Nikons work.
On Canon DSLRs, if the lens (or lens+TC combo) has a maximum aperture of f/5.6 or better, AF is guaranteed to work; from f/6.3 to f/8 it will work on pro bodies but not on consumer bodies; and below f/8 it won't work at all. If the maximum aperture is below f/5.6 or f/8, the firmware prevents the camera from even trying to autofocus because it wouldn't work very reliably.
Nikons are essentially the same, with the same limits of f/5.6 for consumer bodies and f/8 for pro bodies (including the D800), but in this case there isn't a firmware limiter. So below f/8 the camera may try to autofocus, and it may succeed if the light us good and the target is contrasty, but it will not work reliably.
With a 1.7x TC your lens will be 680mm f/9.5 at the long end. It will try to autofocus and it may sometimes succeed, but don't rely on it too much.