Tetenal kit is easy, but I am not sure if it is the easiest.
Blix time can be as long as you like, but try to do it at the same temperature as the dev and for at least the minimum stated time.
That's good to hear - i'll just give it plenty of time then. Was worried about over-cooking things, but not now
As for temperature regulation, I got good results using a water bath mixed up from boiled (kettle) water and cold tap water using a thermometer. If it starts getting too cool, you can just top it up with more boiled water.
I didn't have problems tbh, just ran a (big) sink full of water at around 50c, plonked all 3 bottles in there, and went off up into the loft to load my film onto the spiral (can't get on with changing bags :shrug By the time I came back down, water was at 39c, as were the chem's. Used a scoop of tempering water to pre-soak film, and popped the tank into the sink. I'd a kettle by my side, and just kept pouring a drop or two in to keep temp at 38c.
The chemicals will last a LOT longer than advertised if you can find some airtight bottles for keeping the mixed solutions in (the bottles where you can squeeze excess air out of are best). Compensate for sludgy old chemicals by increasing dev times.
Again, good to hear - i've got some chemical bottles that are squeezeable, hold about 530ml in total, but I just put 500 in there, and squeeze out the airgap before tightening the cap.