@johnf3f - just to expand on a couple of your other comments...
P.S. Note to Mods - I have never encountered a guy/girl like this - how should I respond?
You should politely decline the persons offer to trade via PM, as they do not as yet have access to the classifieds forums.
If however you're asking how to respond to Mark (
@DemiLion ) - then you certainly shouldn't go off on a rant about him being pedantic. I think you're mistaking pedantry with someone telling you something that you didn't want to hear - something that we as staff are perfectly fine with - albeit, Mark was his customary somewhat blunt self in his phrasing... You see, this forum has well over 85000 people registered as members at one time or another. At any one time, there's likely to be a good 200+ online, and maybe, just maybe 2 staff. As such we rely on the membership to partly "self-police" the rules - giving pointers, and if needed calling in the staff to make the official position clear.
And, the official position is this...
WE DO NOT ALLOW PEOPLE TO TRADE IN OPEN FORUMS OTHER THAN THE CLASSIFIED SECTION. If we get wind of it, we will apply the necessary sanctions - which may range from the mildest (as in this thread) of a message saying "stop it and read the rules", through to loss of PM privileges for repeat offenders, loss of access to the classifieds if applicable, and right the way through to suspension of accounts.
Why do we do this? Is it because we LOVE rules and making ourselves a load of work? Nope, it's as my Pink Colleague mentioned above -it's to provide a degree of protection.
You see, We get all the horror stories - even with the rules and the classifieds section, things go wrong. At the end of the day TP's involvement is no more than providing a "notice board" for people to sell things on. We can't enforce anything, can't recover money, can't really DO anything other than stop offenders from repeating their actions and screwing someone else. To try and make it as safe as we CAN, we moderate the classifieds section MUCH more heavily than the open forums. That's why we want to keep everything in there - so we've only one place to keep "locked down" and the rest of the forum can be a much more friendly place to hang out in.
So - i'll keep it simple. Play nice, go read ALL the rules, and try and abide by them - the new member (
@Danny Payne ) could perhaps be excused for not necessarily having read the rules - I know I didn't read anything when I joined here (in fact I'd been a member over a year before someone pointed out that we HAD a classifieds section...) - but, as pointed out by Mark, you HAVE been a member on here since august 2012 - hiatus or no hiatus - that's plenty of time to have become acquainted with the basic rules of the community.
as to this comment:
I joined this forum quite a while ago and then stopped posting when I saw how some beginners were being treated! A whole bunch of pedants attacked the newbies lack of knowledge and frankly I was disgusted. I wrote a little comment on this and didn't even look at this forum for several years.
We don't like that happening either - if you see it happen again, please hit the Report Button and let a staff member take care of it. It makes a refreshing change from dealing with people trying to trade in camera gear, believe me.
And Finally:
I am here to help and learn - what are you here for?
I'm glad you're here to help and to learn. I'm pretty sure that Mark's here for the same thing - albeit he's a long long way further along the learning curve than many of the members, so his quota is probably more stacked towards the helping side than the learning these days... And, before you comment, what he said WAS helpful, and correct - and basically what I'd have posted myself had I been in front of a computer - though I'd have probably phrased it slightly less tersely.
Now, all we need is an apology from
@Danny Payne for attempting to buy outwith the classifieds, and an assurance that he'll also go away and read the forum rules before making any forum gaffes, and we're golden.