wow this is getting technical

I follow it to some extent but .. just a couple of things. I hardly ever crop. If I crop it is, at most, 5 percent of the image, I would say. I don't want huge files on my poor little laptop so even if I could afford a D810, it wouldn't be suitable at all.
interesting about comparisons with DOF. bokeh does concern me but i shot with a D7000 and a 50 1.8 lens when I started taking photography more seriously, almost exclusively and found the bokeh to be ''good enough''. I thought 85 1.8 was even better. I know other factors can be considered like distance from subject and subject from background. I am just coming to an average conclusion.
being able to see the difference between full frame and crop from same generation cameras. i accept it must be true if you have a large display and especially if they are side by side, but 90 percent of my pictures end up on the internet in low resolution being looked at by ''normal'' people on normal monitors or... phones! So it wouldn't be for them. It would only be for me.
low light performance is not so important. again, i am drawing the conclusion from looking at how many times i have shot at very high ISOs and the answer is... never.

My highest ISO setting ever was 800. It's just my style. I am mostly at 100. As I said I shoot portraits using natural light, mostly outdoors, some window light. I also take some street photography pics during the day but I am picking up a little Olympus xz-2 secondhand for that. Far more convenient.