The starter kit is fine for the HP5, but the XP2 is C41 process and uses
different chemicals, and a slightly more involved/regulated processing regime. On the upside, the kit I linked to, will process at least 12 films, either XP2 or standard C41 colour. You'd still need the other kit as well - the c41 kit is just chemicals!
The C41 is all re-useable chemicals, you just adjust the processing times to account for chemical depletion as you process additional films. The B&W kit you linked to would again be all re-useable. The stop and fix are intended to be used until they are no longer effective (stop has a colour change dye in it when it's depleted, and you just do a clip test on the fix!) and I believe the Kodak dev is the same as Ilfords ID-11, which can either be used (and re-used) as a stock solution, or can be used in 1+1 or 1+3 dilutions, where it's intended as a one-shot process. Personally, I prefer to use the dev. as one-shot, as it means you can keep consistent times, rather than faffing about keeping count of the number of films souped, and adjusting process time accordingly.
(it IS POSSIBLE to develop the XP2 in "normal" B&W chemicals, but I've tried it a couple of times, and never been happy with the result - I'm sure someone here will have done it successfulyl, but I've pretty much chosen to use normal B&W film now, and keep the couple of chromagenic rolls i've got for if I'm ever away from home, and need to shoot film and get processing done in the day!)