The problem with internet reviews - and I'm referring particularly to opinions spouted on internet discussion groups - is that people tend to quote stuff they've read elsewhere, and it ends up being repeated as gospel.
The 5D mk II's AF is a good case in point. Everyone agrees that it's not as good as the D700 - 51 point vs. 9 point AF, you wouldn't expect it to be.
A lot of people take this further and say the 5D mk II's AF is rubbish, and only good for landscapes. This gets repeated ad nauseum.
As a 5D mk II owner, I've just tried a little test. I tried focusing in my living room using only window light, forcing the camera to use one of the side AF points. It's 5:20pm, light fading outside, pretty gloomy indoors without the light on - camera's meter is recommending 2 seconds at f/4 at ISO 400.
Surprise surprise, the side AF point focuses fine, given a reasonably contrasty surface to lock on to. (The white kitchen door throws it, but the centre point won't work on that either.) And this is with a 17-40mm f/4 lens, what my 5D2 happened to have fitted at the time.
I wouldn't expect stellar performance using the 5D2 for motorsport etc., but this isn't what it's pitched at. Based on actually using a 5D2 in the real world, I'd have no qualms at all about shooting a wedding with one, unless the bride was a hyperactive 8 year old who'd been at the Sunny D all morning.
Don't believe everything you read!
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