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I was recently asked to photograph a wedding for the daughter of one of my mother's colleagues. I'm just a keen amateur but this girl had seen some of my holiday photos and asked me to photograph her big day. At first I was a little reluctant, for a start I had only ever been to one wedding myself and that was as a guest so I really was going into this blind (note that sentence is also my disclaimer!) 
Finally I said yes so I then spent a lot of time leading up to the day reading these forums for tips and advice. The wedding took place on Saturday so I just wanted to leave my view of the day for any others in a similar situation...
Overall I really enjoyed the day. I was expecting to feel a lot of pressure but as it happens I was very calm and really enjoyed the experience. Before the service I met at the bride's home to get some pictures of her getting ready. This was a really nice time to get to speak to her and the bridesmaids and allow myself to become relaxed with the situation. One thing I would say is that I planned to head off to the church a little earlier than them but their limousine had blocked my car in. Cue frantic driving when we all left to get to the church, park up and be ready as they arrived. My advice: Park around the corner as you'll have a lot of people turning up with cars!
At the reception there was a buffet rather than sit down meal which meant the bride and groom were never actually at the top table so shots of them together were rare except the first dance. I carried on for around an hour or so after the first dance just to get some pictures on the dancefloor such as the bride and brides father sharing a dance.
Mistakes...
1. It was suggested many times in the forums that you should have more than one camera/lens for the day. With that in mind I took my Nikon camera with both the 50mm and 75-300mm for portrait and church shots and then my Panasonic compact system with pancake lens for wide angle pictures - in theory this was meant to reduce the amount of time I was swapping lenses. In reality this was mistake number 1! I found the compact system just wasn't up to the job, especially the lack of a flash gun. This have me a load of problems at the reception where I ended up trying to use my 50mm lens and just standing as far back as possible. My advice is to get your hands on a second dslr, it will make the whole day much easier.
2. Before the wedding I spoke with the bride and got a list of formal shots that she wanted. After the church service it rained a lot so the bride suggested we leave the formal shots until at the reception venue. Mistake number 1! By the time we were there the children had decided they'd wore their suits for long enough and had changed. Due to the fact 90% of the formal shots were meant to have the children in they never happened. I felt bad about this, but I'm telling myself this is one of the risks of not paying for a professional and at least I won't make that mistake again!
Finally, if there's anyone still reading, thank you to all the members of this forum. The research I did before the day was a massive help.
Finally I said yes so I then spent a lot of time leading up to the day reading these forums for tips and advice. The wedding took place on Saturday so I just wanted to leave my view of the day for any others in a similar situation...
Overall I really enjoyed the day. I was expecting to feel a lot of pressure but as it happens I was very calm and really enjoyed the experience. Before the service I met at the bride's home to get some pictures of her getting ready. This was a really nice time to get to speak to her and the bridesmaids and allow myself to become relaxed with the situation. One thing I would say is that I planned to head off to the church a little earlier than them but their limousine had blocked my car in. Cue frantic driving when we all left to get to the church, park up and be ready as they arrived. My advice: Park around the corner as you'll have a lot of people turning up with cars!
At the reception there was a buffet rather than sit down meal which meant the bride and groom were never actually at the top table so shots of them together were rare except the first dance. I carried on for around an hour or so after the first dance just to get some pictures on the dancefloor such as the bride and brides father sharing a dance.
Mistakes...
1. It was suggested many times in the forums that you should have more than one camera/lens for the day. With that in mind I took my Nikon camera with both the 50mm and 75-300mm for portrait and church shots and then my Panasonic compact system with pancake lens for wide angle pictures - in theory this was meant to reduce the amount of time I was swapping lenses. In reality this was mistake number 1! I found the compact system just wasn't up to the job, especially the lack of a flash gun. This have me a load of problems at the reception where I ended up trying to use my 50mm lens and just standing as far back as possible. My advice is to get your hands on a second dslr, it will make the whole day much easier.
2. Before the wedding I spoke with the bride and got a list of formal shots that she wanted. After the church service it rained a lot so the bride suggested we leave the formal shots until at the reception venue. Mistake number 1! By the time we were there the children had decided they'd wore their suits for long enough and had changed. Due to the fact 90% of the formal shots were meant to have the children in they never happened. I felt bad about this, but I'm telling myself this is one of the risks of not paying for a professional and at least I won't make that mistake again!
Finally, if there's anyone still reading, thank you to all the members of this forum. The research I did before the day was a massive help.
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