I became a Dad back in June. Evie arrived a little earlier than expected so spent a couple of days in Special Care.
Rachael (my wife) had had pretty much no sleep while in hospital (Monday - Thursday) so on our first night at home I wanted to do everything I could to let her sleep a bit.
Evie decided to wake up at 5am so I took her downstairs and quietened her down and doing what everyone says you shouldn't, fell asleep with her laying on my chest (naughty Daddy
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Anyway, around 7am she woke up crying and trying out my moobs. I remembered Rachael had expressed a bottle before bed so I thought I'd see if she'd take a bottle.
Well the look I got off her was hilarious..... it was like she was saying "WTF is that!!! It smells/tastes like Mummy but you're not Mummy" and proceed to drink until it was all gone and went back to sleep.
Cue Rachael running downstairs in a panic at about 8:30 wondering where we both were
Now it was only months after that I learnt that you're not meant to let breast fed babies have a bottle or dummy until they're 4-6 weeks old as it can cause nipple confusion....... Well, 7 months on, Evie's still breast fed, has a dummy and feeds from a bottle.
Conversely, some of the babies in our NCT group followed this advice and now won't take a bottle or a dummy.
You'll find everyone has plenty of advice, some better than others but the best advice someone gave me was to follow your instinct