So would you say If i had took the shot around 25mm, it would of been better? Also thanks for the help via link, I find it hard to understand it though,
No, not the focal length ...the aperture is what you need do adjust

... it is tricky to get you head around don't worry.
How would I make it larger, would you know?
yes I would. tis tricky to understand though ...few points to help you.... imagine focusing on one fixed point in scene when you read the stuff below.
1. The F number is a fraction of the lens opening (in very simple terms, more to it really)
2. So F4 is a larger fraction than F8 ...or to put it another way, F4 is a bigger hole to let the light through than F8 is.
3. A narrow hole (large F (fraction) number) will allow mainly narrow rays of light from your scene to hit the sensor. ...I larger hole (low F number) will allow both narrow and wide rays of light to hit the sensor.
4. Depth of field is a side effect of the recording of these rays .... narrow rays cause a large DoF ...wide rays cause a slim DoF
The actual understanding of what happening at the focal plane (the sensor or film) with all the light rays hitting it is down to something called circles of confusion, or CoC for short.
For example - when you focus at some point in an image the focus renders the CoC as in Focus at that point. ... But DoF can be added to that focal point by adjusting the aperture .... so in basics, just understand that any parrt of your scene away from the focal point (where you've focused) will be affected by the DoF set on the lens .... e.g. narrow rays cause tight CoC and wide rays cause lose CoC ... tight Coc equals in focus, lose equals out of focus.
Hope that helps ...it may take you sometime to understand ...start reading, DoF is most one of the most useful skills to know. (actually reading it through its not going to be easy explaining it. ..try searching for DoF threads also.)
