we (my wife and I) usually agree to not do each other for birthdays/christmas, but she usually buys something little or a card to try to make me feel guilty/special all at the same time, so I then outdo her and buy her something better, like flowers etc to her work. Thinking about it though, maybe that is her plan, to get something nice without agreeing to being bought something lol




Try doing the dishes.
Steady on old bean!
I am just as bad though, I don't let her have her goodies until the big day.
I just want to have 5 mins though, that's all...

(my wife and I) usually agree to not do each other for birthdays/christmas

Steady on old bean!
I am just as bad though, I don't let her have her goodies until the big day.
I just want to have 5 mins though, that's all...
lol
Get yourself down the local stockist ... ask to look at it, fiddle with it a bit, enjoy it, make some oooh aah noises ... then ask about the price, frown a bit ... pretend to ponder ..and say 'I'll have to think about it, I'll come back tomorrow for another look if I may?'
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and how many years has that took you to work it out
SUCKER![]()
My dear wife has bought me a new lens for my birthday, an 85mm f1.8 to be precise. It was delivered two days ago but she has hidden it and wont let me touch until my birthday next week.
How tight is that!
Only other thing I can recommend is leverage, i.e. black mail.
fully admit to being a sucker! never spend loads on each other though when we do, christmas I feel is for kids, so let them enjoy it![]()
true im a big kid so spend spend spend lol
will be a better one next year have a little one due april so next one will be special