I used to use dishwasher rinse aid, but ordered some Tetenal Mirasol in my last order to ag-photographic. I haven't noticed a huge difference, and my negatives have been gradually been turning out cleaner and cleaner more through practice anyway. The bottle will last for years, and being in a bottle of photo-chemical stuff it's unlikely to get mixed up with house cleaning stuff.
The other factor to consider with the various wetting agents is that they are (I believe) tested for archival purposes (or possibly even developed with longevity of the film in mind).