ruffdog64 said:Has anyone any experience of the procedure when it comes to photographing in this case my grandson playing football, i understand you need permission from the parents of other children do i need a crb(?) check
DemiLion said:When my girlfriend's son started playing rugby for the local team I just turned up and started shooting. Never been asked what I'm doing, either at home or away, because it's pretty obvious!
I was shooting some Rugby Union the other week and it was the first time I had a parent state that they didnt want me to photgrapher their son...It was an U14 game and I had already sought perission from the host club, this was done a week before the game. On the day of the game I spoke to the away team parents, just letting thm know who I was and what we were all about. It was at this point that a person stated that they didn't want me photographing their son. I asked why this was as I could probably put their mind at rest and carry on with the shoot. The person then said it was their choice and that was that.
I asked would it be an issue if their son was later selected for Yorkshire...Their reply was 'He won't play for Yorkshire' I said but Hyperthetically speaking what if ..... The person then stated again that he would not be selected for Yorkshire.
I did the shoot and deleted any images where their son was in the frame....
Later that day, I was made aware by the host team manager that this person had made a complaint that I had intimidated the person in question. I explained my actions and was told that if a parent states they do not want photo's taken of their son/daughter, that I should just accept it and not question their decision.
Whilst I do not agree with this, I now do exactly that.
I recommend using the Jenna Marbles face.
The trick to dealing with any objecting parent/security guard/outraged minority is not floundering, and making it clear that you know you're in the right.
"Can you access the internet on your phone? You can? Marvellous. Now, if you just take a quick look at the Police's Government based website, you'll see that I don't need a permit, or license, or consent from others or anything like that. See? Nothing to worry about, is there?".
Not if you're friendly and polite with it. Rather than argue your case, you let them read for themselves. If they still want to protest, then their argument is with the Police, and not yourself.
The trick to dealing with any objecting parent/security guard/outraged minority is not floundering, and making it clear that you know you're in the right. .
I've had private security tell me I'm not allowed to take pictures of a flower in the street, as there were children 40 feet away and in a different direction.wild guess.. you ahve never actualy experienced this?
But your first post on the subject said you were anything but non argumentitive, not stubborn or not loud, you posted it in a totally arsey mannerLet's be clear, I'm not about being argumentative here. Never raise your voice or be stubborn. However, once you start doubting that you're allowed to do what you're doing, it looks as though you shouldn't be.
Now i dont mind my kids being photographed but if i did and the arse behind the camera said the above to me in the general tone it comes across as he would find his camera embedded in the darkest depths of his anus with my boot following his camera."Can you access the internet on your phone? You can? Marvellous. Now, if you just take a quick look at the Police's Government based website, you'll see that I don't need a permit, or license, or consent from others or anything like that. See? Nothing to worry about, is there?".
I suppose if you read it in a sarcastic/patronising tone of voice then it does come across as arsey. Fair enough, I'll concede that.
So to add, don't sound arsey. You're meant to be reassuring them.
Had exactly the same situation quite a few years back, mother and child moved from one part of country to another and court orders in place, however the mother didnt tell the club she signed her kid on at, wasnt until photos appeared on my website i got a call from the RFL governing body asking me to remove then that i found out why, abusive dad could have spotted them, seen the team crest on kids shirts and tracked them down.99% of the time I agree - however you do get occasions when a child is on the at risk register (like for instance our local school has one child who's mother has left an abusive father and moved away and they therefore request that that child isnt included in any photograph which might wind up in the press or on the net , which is fair enough)