Sorry - it's now three years since the decree absolute and I'm still smarting about all the wasted money...
Got an email (first contact since the separation) just after last Xmas from her asking if I was ever going to pay back the 'debt' I owed her - she seems to think I owe her money for the divorce...well
she divorced
me, so she can poke that one...
Plus no mention of my having given-up my half of the house and contents so her and her
adult kids didn't have to move to smaller premises...oh no - £70,000 that act of kindness cost me...
Then she goes on to tell me that my antique gun-collection
hadn't been stolen by a work colleague as I'd previously though, but that she'd given it away to a friend of hers and that my £2,000 mountain-bike, which had been 'stolen' from the conservatory, had in fact been donated to one of her cousins...
She even kept the insurance-money from that episode to pay her brother-in-law to build a car-port in front of the house!!!
:bang:
Be-eeeech!!!!