It's all very difficult, my daughter would prefer to have a larger group of good friends than a best friend, she finds being with one best friend all the time very Challenging, which causes is own problems, the clip side is when you get a larger group of friends and there is a disagreement this then causes is own problems. I think different people need different things from friendships. It should be left to individuals to sort out what thru need from friendships.
I agree with you.
If your daughter prefers larger group of friends and finds being best friends with one person bit harder, that is her choice. There are some people like her around, they are enlist to chose as many friends as they wish. That's good.
Having a larger group of friends can have its good points.
However for some people like myself, I find having too many friends to be a problem, I don't have time for everyone, I can't cope trying to be there for most of them, I can't balance my time between my needs and all of my friends. I prefer to have just a couple of best friends, and that's it. I have more time to spare and I'm always there for them.
Having a smaller group of friends or just one or two best friends can have its good points.
Everybody is different, they have their own ways of coping, so it makes no different if you have to have a larger group of friends and no best friend or if you have a smaller group of closer friends or if you have just one best friend.
Either way, let them chose their own friends, let them chose their own number of friends, and let them chose their own level and type of friendship. Let them cope in their own ways. Your daughter copes with larger friends, I cope with just two best friends, everyone copes in their own ways.
A teacher can't order you to cope in a way the teacher expects.