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Come on surely this is a critique section, not a what's right or wrong in the world of objectification.
Maybe, but the OP did open the door to the debate by asking if the work was 'trashy'. And it is an interesting debate too....probably worthy of an entire thread rather than being hidden here.Come on surely this is a critique section, not a what's right or wrong in the world of objectification.
Maybe, but the OP did open the door to the debate by asking if the work was 'trashy'. And it is an interesting debate too....probably worthy of an entire thread rather than being hidden here.
Have to agree with Charlotte on this and the taste view that such glamour is trashy by nature.
I did say that men and women are presented differently in most sexy imagery - you conveniently didn't quote that bit of my post. Women are generally objects and men are generally subjects.
However I also did not say that I didn't produce work that I feel objectifies men. DT01 asked a question, I replied with an answer to his/her question.
Your images could be said to be doing exactly the same, what differences is there having a pretty young women showing of her body compared to a man doing the same? Do men not also look to these images similarly?
I don't think they do. Women are constantly bombarded with unattainable images of perfection. The instances of teenage girls with poor self body images and associated disorders is worrying here in Manchester (and I assume elsewhere). Whereas we don't see the same with boys. Yes there are a few cases which is cause for concern, but nowhere near on the scale of girls.
hell's bell's, there are some posh words coming out here i'm struggling to keep up
Really?The top and bottom of this story is, everyone wants to look good, some cant be bothered to try but deep down they really do want to be adored by someone and look good regardless of sex, i go to the gym 3 to 4 times a week, there are different people with different goals, some want to be thinner and more ripped but some want to be massive and 20 stone, and there are both of these where i go, but to achieve the 20 stone of muscle, they inject steroids which in my opinion is not good and they know its not good for them, so what is it that makes them poison their body's with this muck ?, basically what i'm saying is, it is the same for men and women alike. Deal with it or don't but regardless of what anyone says, we all know it is
Really?
I judge people, not on how they look, but how they behave. I like people that are caring and intelligent. I have a real issue with the TOWIE fixation of modern youth. The idea that a sparkly vagina is more important than a grasp of politics and economics would be funny if it wasn't so flipping serious.
So, don't assume that everyone is so image obsessed, you might be miles wide of reality.
Come on surely this is a critique section, not a what's right or wrong in the world of objectification.
Seriously, plenty of people put a little effort into looking nice, but it's far from an important part of their lives.Miles wide of reality ? I think not, you only have to walk down the street or go through town, its full of people who are trying to look their best, male and female, so who are they trying to impress?.
I love people who are caring and intelligent too, in fact I was talking to a college the other day about a certain person who he thought was very nice, my reply was she may be good looking but her personality makes her ugly, I agree with you, but I would say the biggest percentage of people do want to look good, no? and I cant remember saying that a vagina is more important than politics, saying that though I cant speak for bill Clinton, I think he may have liked a sparkly vagina.
It's a twisted mixed up world, and if all you're seeing is everyone being image obsessed as a nice thing, and still being nice people inside? I have no clue how to respond.
However, unattractive women stand no chance of doing the same. Blokes that fancy older ladies, or larger ladies are considered freaky enough to be the subject of TV documentaries.
It certainly is a strange mixed up world, that's why I think the broader minded you are the more you get though life and enjoy it, I just say what I see, I don't know about been image obsessed, there are plenty of people who are, but I'm certainly not one of them.
I have never commented on images such as these. Why? I simply find such images vulgar. Whether male or female in states of undress I just think it is pornography? Although I accept that there are varying levels of such pornography with these being closer to the milder end.
If these were images of your daughter / son being portrayed on the internet how would you react / feel? Just a simple question.
People relating a lady's shaved head to her sexuality, is their problem. (Personally I think that people look better with their hair though). People making a judgement about another's sexuality, is their problem also so long as it isn't thrust unwilliningly upon them....Being a man, all you need to do is put on a suit and a pressed shirt. But for instance, say I am going to an important business meeting or to present something intellectual, these are the things I will consider as I get ready, from the moment I get out the shower:
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- Should I shave my head? I prefer to wear my hair shaved, but people make comments about my sexuality if I do.
I know several ladies who don't wear make up, I am not sure what comments should be made of them. Perhaps sometimes men are not as catty about women as women are?- Should I wear make up? People will make comments if I don't.
I don't see women wearing trouser suits being called feminists just by what they wear, what they think inside is only shown by the way they act. So if it is an important business meeting, then putting on a trouser suit should be as easy a decision as a man making the same decision.- Or perhaps I should wear a skirt suit? Better get the right length skirt, or people will say I'm a slut. Or dowdy. Either way, I can't win with a skirt suit.
- Maybe a trouser suit would be best. Risky, might get people try and insult me by calling me a feminist. Not that it insults me, but it makes them feel good.
But for instance, say I am going to an important business meeting or to present something intellectual, these are the things I will consider as I get ready, from the moment I get out the shower:
- Should I shave my armpits? People will comment if I don't. Even though I prefer to let them grow naturally.
- Should I shave my legs? I really need to if I'm going to wear a skirt because otherwise people will comment.
- Should I shave my head? I prefer to wear my hair shaved, but people make comments about my sexuality if I do.
- Should I wear make up? People will make comments if I don't.
- How much make up should I wear? If I get it wrong, I'll be called a slut.
- What top should I wear? I can't show too much cleavage or people will call me a slut. Even though I naturally have large breasts and can't really do much about them.
- Or should I wear a dress? I like wearing cute dresses. But people say I'm 'mutton dressed as lamb' if I do.
- Should I wear the DM's that I love and feel confident in with my dress? No, people will comment on my sexuality.
- Or perhaps I should wear a skirt suit? Better get the right length skirt, or people will say I'm a slut. Or dowdy. Either way, I can't win with a skirt suit.
- Maybe a trouser suit would be best. Risky, might get people try and insult me by calling me a feminist. Not that it insults me, but it makes them feel good.
- I'll just put on these comfy flat shoes... Actually, I'm called unfeminine if I wear flat shoes. Best make it heels.
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My experience of the creative field is that the things on your list are considered normal (that is the choices, rather than people judging or commenting as you describe). No one cares how you look, just whether you can create what they want, get on with the team and deliver to their budget. What sort of important meetings are you going to to deliver intellectual information where you get called a slut? Seriously? Who are these narrow minded and shallow people that you encounter so frequently and what do you say to them when they insult you in this way?
Please don't tell me that no one cares how we look as women. Because they do. Telling us that no one cares just silences our voice and tells us that our experiences aren't valid.
people of both sexes are judged on how they look though - my job requires me to move seamlessly from a practical feild to an office environment
If I wear tectors, combat trousers (spattered with mud), a fleece and duvet jacket , and leave my face unshaved and my hair uncombed (with the net result that i look a bit like a werwolf ) my experience is that i won't be taken seriously in a business setting when making a funding presentation or negotiating with various parts of officialdom - i'll generally be talked down to and my opinion disregarded because I am "clearly" a manual labourer and "therefore of lower IQ or importance . I will however be taken seriously by contractors on site who see someone who walks the walk rather than just talking the talk.
On the otherhand if I wear smart shoes, a nicely ironed shirt, a silk tie, and a business suit , shave my face and style my hair - I will be taken seriously in the business setting as i'll be perceived as one of 'them' - and my opinion will be valued (or at least not disregarded) because i am "clearly" someone qualified to hold it. However if i go on to site dressed like that i'll be just another suit, and while the contractors may do as I say because i have the power to fire them, they won't take me seriously or be willing to listen to suggestions on how to do the job because I am clearly " a suit who knows nowt about getting his hands dirty"
You could argue that both judgements are wrong and morrally corrupt as who I am doesnt change with my clothing and style, but that argument is fundamentally pointless as it is just the way things are and never likely to change.
It doesnt get to me either, i was just sayin
I don't judge female colleagues on looks either ... but i do make value judgements if colleagues of either sex are inappropriately dressed for the task at hand (if you are visiting a building site shoes with a 3 inch heel are not appropriate... for either sex )