Billingham bags. I've a 555 for storage/big jobs where I want most of my gear and a Hadley pro (I think) for smaller jobs (5dII plus 50/1.4, 24/1.4 and 85/1.2). They look nice, no noisy velcro, waterproof, loads of pockets for bits and bobs. The only bags my wife has admired.
Plus I've a Calumet roller insert which fits inside a soft-sided roller case which can hold tonnes of stuff and not look like a camera bag.