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Is this not exactly what you have insurance for?
Why on earth would you even think of pursuing the happy couple who are your customers?
Heather

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Is this not exactly what you have insurance for?
Why on earth would you even think of pursuing the happy couple who are your customers?
Heather

The OP was concerned & posted on here as many have done. Her first comment was that she was "in a bit of a mess" so she obviously is worried about putting in an insurance claim & also reiterated a comment made to her about persuing the B&G.
In the light of day I am sure that she sees sense in persuing the insurance route so why not cut her some slack.
Mention wedding & the baloon goes up!!!
Giving the OP the good advice she needs, instead of offering your bravado opinion isn't really your strong point is it? Being a keyboard warrior is easy until somebody in officialdom works out who you are and takes action on what you have said. Always worth remembering, the internet is never as anon as many seem to think... :|
The OP was concerned & posted on here as many have done. Her first comment was that she was "in a bit of a mess" so she obviously is worried about putting in an insurance claim & also reiterated a comment made to her about persuing the B&G.
In the light of day I am sure that she sees sense in persuing the insurance route so why not cut her some slack.
Mention wedding & the baloon goes up!!!
Being a mod I think you should lead by example and try to be a bit nicer.
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Being a mod I think you should lead by example and try to be a bit nicer.
There's a great moderator over at a forum I use that threatens to put clips of star trek on (the original series) if someone is being naughty. The person gets the warning but without being patronised and because of the light hearted warning, doesn't feel the need to argue back.
What the others said.
1. Claim on insurance (if you want - it may not be worth it and depending on insurers they may say you were partly responsible)
2. Think yourself lucky the guest wasn't hurt and doesn't yet have a lawyer.
3. Make sure you never do this again. There was an angry thread recently about risk assessments. If there was enough risk to warn people there was enough risk to take other steps. E.g. hazard warning tape, sandbag, somebody to hold the stand all the time, using and auto pole instead, not doing it.....etc etc.....
It is somewhat ironic that you should pull Yvonne up on this with her being one of the nicest people you could hope to meet...sometimes a sterner warning is needed from a mod in order for a reprimand to be taken seriously, though not too sure I'd consider what Yvonne posted as a reprimand, there was no threat of time on the naughty step or anything, it was I'd like to think a observation more than anything
Really?
I think you might have been reading a completely different thread, or reading this one with your mind already made up about yet another wedding thread. What I've seen are the topics the OP mentioned covered with great advice, which she's already taken on board.
1, The cause of the incident - she's changing her work practices
2, Bad advice from the venue - she's decided not to pursue
3, Worried about claiming on her insurance - she's putting a claim in.
They also said I should bill the bride and groom as their guest is their responsibility.
)Claim on the insurance and move on. And say a little prayer that the woman doesn't find some no-win-no-fee leech to try & claim from your insurance.
I'm sure one of those leeches could find some reason to claim it's all your fault that their client is now suffering from post traumatic stress, whiplash and depression.
I think you should read the bit in the rules about not challenging Mods' decisions. Either that or demand your membership fee back.Being a mod I think you should lead by example and try to be a bit nicer.
Actually they don't. They're function is to ensure that Safety at Work policies are properly conceived, understood and executed, thereby saving companies thousands of pounds in insurance premiums and preempting claims.
Don't get me wrong I'm no fan of idiotic jobsworths, but H&S is an essential part of the modern workplace. Done correctly it benefits both staff and employers/ organisers and members of the public. Done badl, of course, its farcical.
Next time, carry out a proper risk assessment and mitigate any potential hazards properly!![]()
I have a line in my contract that states the B&G are responsible for the cost of replacing or repairing any damage to kit caused by them or their guests... however I wouldn't even go down this line unless there was something really dodgy happened like the groom got drunk and threw my camera in a lake or something, the rest of the time it would just go through the insurance.
TBH the bit about them being responsible for the guests damaging kit is never going to be enforceable. Why have it?
TBH the bit about them being responsible for the guests damaging kit is never going to be enforceable. Why have it?
Is it not?
Like I said the chances are I'd never need to chase the B&G for the money anyway, but I'd rather have something in there in case I did.
I heard a story once where a drunk guest pushed a fully armed photographer into a swimming pool.
Yeah, that would be enforceable.
I heard a story once where a drunk guest pushed a fully armed photographer into a swimming pool.
Yeah, that would be enforceable.
I heard a story once where a drunk guest pushed a fully armed photographer into a swimming pool.
Yeah, that would be enforceable.
Exactly, as the venue rules also state that guests are the responsibility of the B&G (or who ever paid for the venue and signed the agreement to state such)
I think you should read the bit in the rules about not challenging Mods' decisions. Either that or demand your membership fee back.
I wish them the best of luck if they ever need to enforce that infront of a court.
Sometimes people see things in writing and on messageboards and they all agree yes.. thats the way it should be...Thats how its going to be...
They seem to have a total lack of understanding regarding the real world and how things actually work![]()
I heard a story once where a drunk guest pushed a fully armed photographer into a swimming pool.
Yeah, that would be enforceable.
Steve Smith said:You would not be able to make the bride and groom liable for the guest.
Drunk or sober, he is responsible for his own actions.
All you can do is claim on your insurance, and try to claim against the drunken guest.
Steve.
I will call the insurers in the morning and thank-you all for your advice & comments!
Blimey. Bet the guest was popular. Do you mean enforceable against the B & G