well my mate Javid refused an arranged mariage and went off to university to study metalurgy instead, Murad refused to go into training to become a mullah and is now working in advertising , and Tomic (who was a bosnian muslim hence the name - I say was because he's a practicing christian these days) outraged his family by marrying a christian girl and eventually emigrated to australia where he now repairs and sells classic cars for a living.
I think a key question here is how many muslims do you actually know ? ( I suspect the answer will be slightly less than 1) , they arent bogeymen, or strangers from another planet, in essence the vast majority are just like us , they broadly like the same things we do and have the same hopes dreams and desires - the radicals are a teeny minority , and blaming all muslims for their actions is as logical as blaming all catholics for the actions of the IRA