We have a small place in Spain that we use for holidays, we also have a son who has quite severe learning difficulties.
Last time we were out there we got robbed while in the car and it really unsettled him, so much so that next time we tried going out there he had a melt down while boarding the plane and we had to get off again which caused total chaos ... which in turn made the situation even worse. That was nearly 3 years ago and we haven't tried since as once something like this happens he never forgets so that flying out for the next umpteen years.
Really miss the place actually but just don't fancy a 18 hour drive with no stop over (he won't go in an unfamiliar building so an overnight stop is impossible).
We have just bought a bungalow to do up as our new home, he won't go in it ..... not sure quite what's going to happen when we attempt to move.