Buy some god awful coffee.
Some are saying the time for politeness is past etc. but have you actually come out and said politely "please stop coming round so much"? maybe all it will take is a polite "leave us in peace" but you won't know till you try.
Some are saying the time for politeness is past etc. but have you actually come out and said politely "please stop coming round so much"? maybe all it will take is a polite "leave us in peace" but you won't know till you try.
To be honest I think you deserve the punishment for the disrespect you are showing your partner by referring to her as "her indoors" constantly. Who does that?
have you ever actually asked the woman to leave? ...
might try and take a pic in a minute and will post over you-tube and on MI5's website as a national security risk!!
What the hell is "the indoors"? Is this the wife? What a weird nickname.
I'm with the direct approach. But it's easier said than done on an internet forum. I wonder if we were in the same position, would we be able to say "look you are starting to overstay your welcome a bit, can you not come round"
I'm with the direct approach. But it's easier said than done on an internet forum. I wonder if we were in the same position, would we be able to say "look you are starting to overstay your welcome a bit, can you not come round"
Wise words gotta be better than getting the gimp gear outShe clearly has problems and needs help.
Have you considered actually offering help?
What I have in mind is to explain that because of the amount of time she spends at your house, and the problems that she's clearly having with her studies, it's very clear that she needs help from experts because, even if you and your wife had the time to carry on with these long visits, you don't have the expertise she needs... Offer to find out who the best people/agencies are for her problems, offer to make appointments for her, offer to put her in touch with professional counsellors and so on.
That way, you should be able to both help her and get rid of her at the same time.