If you wanna put the world to rights you need to recognise whats really there and what isnt. For a kick off that video talks about using the word gay to mean something other than its intended for i.e sad or stupid - I used it in its literal form, hence why you said it was homophobic, remember?
And even if i did use it as a different meaning, a word is defined by its usage anyway so if i wanna use the word gay to mean stupid then i will.
So where are we? I used the word gay (in its literal form) to inadvertently call the OP's pic gay (which i made pretty clear it was a joke anyway). So you have assumed that my gay 'tag' was a negative slur.
I dont remember voicing my opinion on this site about my feelings towards homosexuality, so i dont know how you've assumed that me calling something gay is bad.
Of course im being pedantic, but thats the point, you are picturising me based on my use of language which lets face it is pretty ambiguous at the best of times.
I though homophobes were people that had an irrational hate/fear of homosexuals. All the homosexuals i've ever met have been really cool blokes and they seemed to like me too, so its the real world that counts isnt it?
But, at the end of the day, i dont take it personally, you dont really think im a homophobe anyway, theres no possible way you would know.
We all cool now?
OP?
~Adey
Edit - I shoulda just let trencheel explain it, he did a better job than i did.