This is one of those areas where perception is reality to a significant degree, and unlike some companies, Apple have worked hard to successfully manage perception in a majority of their customers. If I can borrow an extreme example, it's a bit like Muslim women wearing a niqab, where a majority of them are proud to do so and would not consider temselves oppressed in any way. For some, that management has made things worse, rather than better, and with the example given of deliberately bricking phones 'for your own security and good' some are pleased and some are not.
I still own a Macbook, and at one time considered buying an iPhone because android doesn't work especially well with OSX. I can only say that it felt claustrophobic to use - irrational, since it's just a phone with a screen and icons - and I really did not want to use, let alone own one. Then there's iTunes, which is pretty darn oppressive to use instead of being able to add/remove data directly. There's much more to interface design than one might think.