We don't know what was said when she spoke to her insurer, we know they told her a claim for her car was pointless
but not what else was said during the conversation.
When my daughter was hit head on by a G4S van on a narrow bridge that was her right of way, the driver
said she was speeding !!! Her car was a write off but no one seriously injured, she was nearly at the end of the narrow part, police told her it wasn't her fault, but she still said to me after that she didn't think she was speeding but not sure, I know the road and you seriously can't go through it that fast.
She did hear the driver say to his mate something about being in trouble if there were any more accidents and in fact
he went to one of those no win no claim companies, which held things up for nearly 2 years before it was finalised and
he got nothing, did impact on her insurance to the effect that she couldn't change companies with a claim still outstanding so could have ended up paying a higher premium