Photographers in the darkroom are just as dependent on the work of others as digitographers are on the software developers. I think that this choice of terms reflects the way some of the comments have been going - I wouldn't personally make such a distinction. I have a recollection of Ansel Adams writing somewhere that he could never get a satisfactory print of a certain negative until a different printing paper came out. I have to ask though - if total control over the entire process is necessary, then does that mean that if you write your own image processing program (or happen to be a Photoshop developer) it's then OK to go OTT on digital editing?
As originally posed, the question seemed to be more a statement - I believe photography is about getting it right in camera, and no afterwork. I do wonder about the sentence "others feel more comfortable than I in manipulating the light-sourced pixels". Does this imply that it's OK to manipulate the light-sourced silver grains in the emulsion?
At base, it seems another statement that stopping half way through the creative process is somehow "purer". Because it means that the image as recorded is as close as possible to what the camera recorded, and that this is better than producing an image based on what we see - either phyically or in our minds as we consider the subject.
I'm personally hybrid. I use film from choice as being better for me, but admit freely that I can make a better print by scanning than I can in the darkroom. Photoshop is much more flexible, even though I only use about half a dozen features. Those features let me go well beyond the "valid photographic techniques of reframing/cropping; but I only do the things I've done in the darkroom for years. Just more easily. As since it's the end result that matters, I'm happy to get there with less effort. The fact that the end result is actually better is a big bonus for me.