Thank you for your kind words
I will be both indoors and out, in the families homes and gardens, maybe out on beaches, countryside, wherever the kids will relax and I can get them at their best really. I have an old barn next to my house I'm going to convert into a purpose built studio with sensory lighting (as well as studio of course) so I can have families come to me, then we can also go out and about around the farm and in my garden and I'll know where I can get the pictures. So yes in their homes I will likely be restricted for space at times and I realise the 90mm wouldn't be the best lens.
So the 16-55 sounds the better option of that and the 18-55, I'll have to look at the prices - it sounds more expensive! However I guess it will be quite a good all rounder for what I need, so if it's a really lens and I can capture what I need with it I'm better off spending the money on something I'll make better use of.
Would you start with the 18-55 because it's cheaper? Or can you think of other reasons it would be the better choice - I don't think the weight will be too much of an issue.
The 56 sounds right. Hadn't really considered the 55-200, I'll have a look thanks
Thanks for the kind words and helpful hints John
I do like the sound of the 56 and 35, and I had considered the 23mm. Maybe those 3 with a really nice zoom as above would be just perfect. I don't think I'm going to need too long a reach, I'm not interested in wildlife photography at all, and although sometimes it's fun to zoom right in it so not something I'd miss if I couldn't.