Jhob asked a question in another thread that is fairly well related to this one. So, I'm posting my reply in this thread as well.
The question was what to do with a family session in terms of posing and getting them to relax.
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OK, let's start with positioning the family. (Obviously, first you'll have chosen the place and the light you'll be using.)
There are two "rules" that I give the families I'm photographing. The first one is: everyone has to get close together. I mean
very close together. That will prompt the family to sit or stand reasonably close, but not nearly close enough for me. LOL. I want their faces touching. I at least want them to try. Getting them that close together accomplishes several things.
- It eliminates dead space between family members, implying a close relationship
- It improves their body language; you can't get all those faces close together without the subjects turning their shoulders (preventing them from squaring up to the camera)
- It makes them giggle! It feels silly to be that close to each other, and more times than not, someone will tickle someone else, whatever.
- It helps them to relax, having the other family members to lean on, literally and figuratively.
- If you don't have a lot of light, getting your subjects' faces together is very helpful as it will get them closer to the same plane; the result is that you can get away with a wider aperture if needed.
Once you've got them close together, take a look at the composition they've created, and simply tweak out anything that doesn't work. If you can hardly see Mom because she's gotten squished behind Dad, adjust it. Be sure to look at the shape the faces are making. Generally you're looking for triangles (as opposed to rows and rectangles.) So, rather than YOU having to come up with a specific pose, you're letting them do the work, and you're just moving around what doesn't work for you.
The second rule for families is that everyone has to touch someone else. Don't tell them HOW to do it. Let them come up with it on their own. It may result in Dad grabbing everyone up in a bear hug. The kid sitting on Mom's lap may reach up and do the "reverse hug." Whatever. If anyone doesn't voluntarily touch someone else, often I'll grab the "dead limb" and with a wink and a smile, shake it until it loosens up, and drop it around someone, which always elicits a chuckle. Again, tweak anything that doesn't work for you.
Having them all touch each other accomplishes the following:
- It enhances the appearance of a close relationship even further.
- It eliminates the compositional problem of having limp, hanging arms, and gives them something to do with their hands.
- It keeps everyone in place! That's really important when working with families with young children.
By now, you should have a very good starting point for your family. They should be nicely positioned, fairly loosened up, and they'll have a clear idea of what sort of images you're looking for. It's a great time to turn your back on them and let them chat amongst themselves for a few minutes. I call it "marinating."
It gives them a chance to relax into the position and make it their own.
Once you're ready to start, always keep in mind the goal. You probably don't want them wholly focused on the fact that they're being photographed. You probably don't want them staring at you. I would rather get them focused on each other. You can ask them questions about each other. Ask about their favorite vacation together. Whatever.
I could go on for days about working with families, but really, the majority of it is wrapped up in those two "rules."
Relax! You'll do great.
- CJ