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They seem to be trying that in a few places, thing is Graham if you are in support of that then would you mind explaining what good that is going to do :shrug:.
I think the reasoning is that it will force parents to take responsibility for the actions of their children and serve as a warning to others that the behaviour witnessed recently won't be tolerated.
How many people posting on here have children?
It's an incredibly boring subject that lack of discipline and bleeding heart liberals have destroyed our society and turned us into what we are today.
The fact that offering violence to our children teaches them right from wrong and respect for others. What utter crap! If you bring children up from an early age to respect other people and their property and their belongings and the simple lesson that they do unto others that they want done to them children have respect for others. No violence towards them, no beatings, no fear instilled into them.
I have 3 kids 16,14 & 5. I started off with the idea that I should bring them up the same way that I was, that if they did wrong I should proffer violence towards them - slap the back of their legs, a good old clip round the ear. All that proved to do was make them scared of me, just as it did with my Parents and eventually reticent. You can carp on all you like about not doing you any harm but no one likes being smacked regardless of age. Imagine if someone gave you a backhanded today doing something wrong?
By talking with my kids, explaining right and wrong, making sure they understood what the differences were, making sure they knew what respect is - earning it for themselves and giving it, I have never needed to resort to violence with my kids since. It's a far better option, maybe those that do like to slap their kids around should try it.
As a society we also need to take those kind of methods into the world. In days gone by we had that belief, we preach no respect anymore, but it works both ways from authority and from the kids and young parents who may struggle with their responsibilities.
I'm certainly no bleeding heart liberal, I believe in discipline - but I think respect is a far greater thing to teach - and that does not come from the hand, the fist , the sword or the gun!
Respect is all very well, but for whatever reason it's becoming absent.
You can blame a lot of thing for that, but I think its the lack of anticipation of consequence.
For example, get nicked for stealing a mars bar. Whats the result? Erm, a caution. Mild b...telling off. In one ear, out the other. So, shrug shoulders, and nick 2 mars bars next time. Consequence? Mild telling off. So, now you have created the problem, you've taught someone that you can do things wrong, and lets be honest, they know they are and have nothing more than a telling off.
By the time we get to offence 4 or 5, its not nicking mars bars, its far more serious, but the consequence is the same.
Now, when I was 12, I got caught nicking sweets, and to be honest, it hurt. It hurt a great deal. Have I done it since? No. Why not? Well, simple really, for the same reason I don't try to put my hand in a flame, because I learned at an early age, that it hurts!
Yes, you can look at it the other way, and say well, my father could have sat me down and talked about it. Would have have worked? Nope.
I behaved at school, because I knew that a wack round the backside hurts. A cane would in all probability hurt a great deal more. I didn't need to experience that to know it. In fact, the cane was used once at the school I spent my 3rd/4th/5th/6th year in, it didn't need to be used more, because the threat was enough.
To be fair, there was also another reason why I behaved, and it applied to everyone at the last school I went too. It was a Forces Education School, in Germany. Now, the rules were you misbehaved, and your father got posted back to the UK. That was a disgrace, and cost him money (loosing overseas allowance and duty free living). Strangely, the offending rate of my peers was FAR lower than the equivalent in the UK.
So whats the lesson here?
Simple, when parents are forced to control their children, they can and do.
When there are consequences of actions, then the actions are thought about, and that consequence acts as a deterrent.
Lastly, what detrimental effect did the system I was brought up in have? Answer none. Ex Service children were actively courted by not just the Forces themselves, but the Police, Fire Service, Civil Service and banks to name a few, simply because they were better behaved.
how about the fact of so many different races getting together and having children :shrug: What do I know about human anatomy, but are things like this actually making a difference of how the human brain is developing, after all the brain is what is responsible for our thoughts and actions as well.
wibbly said:You were doing so well, and then you went all Daily Mail on us. What a ridiculous statement! Probably the most ridiculous I've read on here, and I am learning as I read more there are some absolute ****ing clowns on here! :shake:
Are you David Starkey in disguise?
onona said:How is that not ridiculous, Splog? He's insinuating that mixed race children may have different brain development. That's frankly a rather disturbing remark to make.
How is that not ridiculous, Splog? He's insinuating that mixed race children may have different brain development. That's frankly a rather disturbing remark to make.
Why is it ridiculous? Please do share the reasoning behind your post.
wibbly said:It's quite simple really, our friend here is alluding to the fact that a lot of societies problems here in the UK are due to interbreeding between different races. Well quite simply this round of rioting was nothing to do with race and nothing to do with what colour was throwing bricks or breaking into shops or looting. It was simple anarchy regardless of colour.
If anything the issue is one of class, and we've got Margaret Thatcher to thank for that one considering she destroyed any class system that did exist and turned everyone into complete wannabes!
I think it's quite safe to assume this has absolutely nothing to do with colour or race or interbreeding :shrug:
Under age rioters?
Could someone tell me the minimum age for rioting?
for the purposes of this poll under 16 years of age
You were doing so well, and then you went all Daily Mail on us. What a ridiculous statement! Probably the most ridiculous I've read on here, and I am learning as I read more there are some absolute ****ing clowns on here! :shake:
Are you David Starkey in disguise?
The Telegraph
Matthew Chin, 18, of Darville Road, north London, admitted violent disorder on Holloway Road on August 9 and attempted burglary of a Carphone Warehouse at the same address. With 21 previous appearances before the courts but no prison sentences he was warned he was going to jail.
You have to wonder where this lad's parents were...
u8myufo
The problem with physiological theory is that often they turn out to be just that, theory.
How many times have we seen one theory turned on it's head, and the opposite become the norm?
I have policed an inner city slum area, and to be fair, there were far more honest upright kids and parents there than there were bad. It's also true to say that there were about the same proportions of an up market suburb I walked the streets for money in a few years later.
I can't make this into a thesis that can be argued about by theorists, and I'm not going to try to, because I'd rather base my opinion on what I experience in place of a thesis.
I'm afraid, that the cause is simply the consequence argument.
To expand on that, leaving my experience aside, look at a number of those convicted of looting so far. Are they all unemployed? No. Are they in dead end jobs? No. There are nurses, teachers, Soldiers all jobs where you expect the post holders to have a sense of responsibility, yet they got themselves nicked.
Go back to the first night of the rioting, and leaving aside the supposed causes of that per sae, and examine the Police reaction. Nothing. Looting was allowed to happen. Now I accept some of the reasons for that, it was Saturday night, and the chances of calling in the cavalry in the form of off duty officers were slim (personally, if I was off, I didn't answer the phone until I knew who'd called!), so in terms of priorities, I can understand why looting came down the list of priorities.
But that in itself became the problem. On the Sunday morning we were bombarded with images of whole scale looting, and no Police reaction. In other words, no consequence.
Now it doesn't take much of a leap of imagination to see what was going through a lot of peoples minds, simply the thought, 'I can get away with it'.
In short, and I am as guilty of doing it, the problem is being over analysed, its cause is actually simplistic, greed, opportunity and lack of consequence = looting.
Well first of all David let us clear one thing up as you quoted in your other reply " I am not your Friend ". I class a friend as someone who actually listens to my views, opinions and will then DISCUSS their reason`s for not believing in anything I have said. You on the other hand have blatently dismissed it without yourself giving any thoughts on the matter, perhaps it is too much for you to string two sentances together :shrug: For your information perhaps you might want to take a look here http://www.academic.marist.edu/mwwatch/fall05/science1.htm Do a search for human brain developement and pick any link you wish, I think you will find they all end up at the same conclusion. Let us try another search shall we? http://www.parentingtoolbox.com/2011/01/07/child-behavior-problems-were-big-concern-for-2010/ Well I just picked one link and look what we have If you had read my post properly you might have realised that I was not saying this was the cause of it all but perhaps it might play a part in it. If any of the information about the brain not reaching maturity untill around the age of 25 is to be believed, what then on a long term basis do you think is happening when teenagers are having children :shrug: I may not have had a private education like yourself but I am clever enough not to buy a daily paper when the same info is already out there on the net I am sorry you feel there are so many clowns on here as you so put it :nuts:, was the proceeding word to Clowns due to a lack of spelling knowledge or is your keyboard broken? One final thing, I may not be the brightest button on TP but I at least have the courtesy to address people by their names if it is available to see under their avatar, and people say the kids of today have no manners :shake::shake:
how about the fact of so many different races getting together and having children :shrug:
u8myufo
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Now it doesn't take much of a leap of imagination to see what was going through a lot of peoples minds, simply the thought, 'I can get away with it'.
In short, and I am as guilty of doing it, the problem is being over analysed, its cause is actually simplistic, greed, opportunity and lack of consequence = looting.
Go back to the first night of the rioting, and leaving aside the supposed causes of that per sae, and examine the Police reaction. Nothing. Looting was allowed to happen. Now I accept some of the reasons for that, it was Saturday night, and the chances of calling in the cavalry in the form of off duty officers were slim (personally, if I was off, I didn't answer the phone until I knew who'd called!), so in terms of priorities, I can understand why looting came down the list of priorities.
How is that not ridiculous, Splog? He's insinuating that mixed race children may have different brain development. That's frankly a rather disturbing remark to make.
What utter rubbish, without actually bothering to respond as to whether or not I need to have the courtesy to call you by your name or not which seems a pretty pathetic attitude, or the fact as to which words I wish to use in any of my posts, you seem to have missed the whole point of what I found so appalling.
You don't seem to actually make reference to this whatsoever in your response. I wouldn't argue the point with you regarding brain development up to mid 20's. that is well known research material.
I'm assuming you will soon reach this age yourself!