I am not interested in battles and fights, I have a business to run, but I am also happy to share my knowledge, for free, even though I run workshops for money. So it would be really useful to know, do those of you new/newer/amateurs/aspiring professionals actually want to know what things are like from a professional perspective, as it would appear that whenever a professional shares their experiences, particularly in relation to weddings, attacks start to happen.
Honestly, I have no aspiration to go pro so no, I don't particularly want to know about what things are like from a professional perspective. I appreciate honest C&C from everyone though - whether they are a pro or not.
As I say, I'm just not interested in that line, so if all that people want is the fight I know not to bother to share on anything at all to do with weddings. But if there are those of you that are interested, maybe you could let us know if you are after the professional perspective?
If people ask a direct question about wedding photography then all you can do is answer it as best you can. You have no idea if they are going to react badly so all you can do is try... and then retreat to a safe diastance if it all goes down hill.
Any help and guidance from those that seek advice, rather than from those who are not professionals who dish out the advice, would be gratefully received so that I can ensure that I am not part of the unpleasantness that I have no desire to part of.
As long as you are polite and honest with your responses then you shouldn't become part of any unpleasantness. I do think part of the problem with wedding threads that have gone bad in the past is a pack mentality. While what is being said may be completely correct and with the best intentions - it doesn't always need 15 different people to hammer the point home. People get defensive, take sides and don't always know when to let it go.
They have also become so "known" for being volatile (wedding threads that is) that people seem conditioned to respond to them in a particular way - e.g. there is nearly always a "popcorn smiley" comment to be found. Maybe everyone just needs to forget any badness that has gone before and approach wedding threads in the same way they would any other thread. Hopefully with an open mind.
TIA
Zoe