To do it in camera do I take a pic of the grey card on set manual wb?? But it is grey so wouldn't the wb be off?
And if I done it in ACR do I need the card to be in every picture I take?
There is a more simper way to use the grey card Kay, I shoot a Nikon D200 and a D3 and they both have what's called a 'PRE' white balance facility.
In your white balance menu scroll through all the symbols (cloudy, daylight etc) and find the 'PRE' option. I'm not sure of the exact buttons and configuration with a D5000 but I hold the 'OK' button until the 'PRE' text begins to flash or blink, I then hold up my grey card in front of the lens, it makes no difference if this is on or out of focus, and then take a shot.
If the camera has successfully read the grey card an implemented the new custom white balance 'GOOD' will blink on your LCD. Job done
According to the manual, the grey card is far more efficient at rendering colour info for white balance. I recommend reading through the pointers in the manual, there very easy to understand and it''s far too much for me to re-type here.
I use this method when the conditions are very harsh, such as obscure fluorescent lighting, every other instance I use either manual white balance or the relevant presets - cloudy for over cast days and daylight for bright fine days etc. I never use auto, despite what folk say about fixing WB in post if shooting raw, it's never quite the same IMO.
The alternative option when using a grey card is to include it in every picture where the lighting changes and then in photoshop, open a levels or curves adjustment layer and use the grey balance dropper, click on the grey card to fix the colour balance.The grey card does not need to be present in every sht, just every shot where they light colour temp changes.
Hope this helps.
T.