For the majority of the population the compact route is probably the best.. after all, to match the range of performance of a good compact with a DSLR will usually take three lenses (wide-normal, normal-tele, macro). And you've got to be prepared to carry the extra weight of a DSLR plus lenses, as well as the attention a large camera attracts.
But we've nothing to go on to get an idea of what the two friends might have needed..