It's great! I'm about to do my 3rd.
!? Really?
Anyone here gone through divorce?
Just come through it myself.
Going to be on my own soon. 30 plus years together. 1 child. Gutted.
It's great! I'm about to do my 3rd.
My child is nearly 12.
Currently looking for somewhere to live. Really difficult.
My child is nearly 12.
Currently looking for somewhere to live. Really difficult.
Been divorced twice. Neither was a pleasant experience but I’m married to an amazing woman now so I guess it was worth all the stress and aggro.
If you wait a while you may qualify as a 1st time buyer.Yea, I don't bad mouth her. Our child is the most important part of us. We both love her massively and will share her equally. She can stay with either of us at any time.
Problem I have is accommodation. Trying to find somewhere to live. It's so hard. Got money to buy a place but can't find anything at the mo. Ex has found somewhere.
When my daughter was 20-odd (after ex and I had been separated for several years) she had two full Christmas dinners on the same day as she didn't like to let either of us down - but did not mention it until I questioned her lack of enthusiasm for the Xmas pud.Work out sensible ways to celebrate Christmas etc,
When my daughter was 20-odd (after ex and I had been separated for several years) she had two full Christmas dinners on the same day as she didn't like to let either of us down - but did not mention it until I questioned her lack of enthusiasm for the Xmas pud.
Yep, and furthermore I am great friends with my exes.
Im just going through my divorce, luckily the kids are grown up now and have independent life styles so thats not a worry.
It was my decision to end it after 29 years of marriage, her alcohol consumption has got out of control and taking over everything we did. I have tried to explain what the problems are, several times but she is in denial that she has a problem, but i would consider 5 litres of vodka a week to be a problem.
To be fair she has cut it down to 3 litres a week now, but its too late.
She has had me arrested for threatening to shoot her, had armed response police at the house etc, etc, so its gone too far to be saved.
The house is sold and money split 50/50 i am buying a new house, a two bedroom semi-detached bungalow on a cul-de-sac and cant wait to move in and make it my own.
I have already planned out the spare bedroom and garage for small studio setups and to get some of my photos printed big, for wall hangers.
Divorce is something i should have done years ago instead of wasting years trying to save it.
A new year and a new start for me
best thing i ever did...i bumped into her in a professional capacity a couple of years ago and was speaking to her for 10 minutes before recognising her and only after she spoke about our child...she was gutted i never remembered her...the worst part is ive got my present missus and my ex working in the same place now lets hope they dont sit next to each other in the canteen
Im just going through my divorce, luckily the kids are grown up now and have independent life styles so thats not a worry.
It was my decision to end it after 29 years of marriage, her alcohol consumption has got out of control and taking over everything we did. I have tried to explain what the problems are, several times but she is in denial that she has a problem, but i would consider 5 litres of vodka a week to be a problem.
To be fair she has cut it down to 3 litres a week now, but its too late.
She has had me arrested for threatening to shoot her, had armed response police at the house etc, etc, so its gone too far to be saved.
The house is sold and money split 50/50 i am buying a new house, a two bedroom semi-detached bungalow on a cul-de-sac and cant wait to move in and make it my own.
I have already planned out the spare bedroom and garage for small studio setups and to get some of my photos printed big, for wall hangers.
Divorce is something i should have done years ago instead of wasting years trying to save it.
A new year and a new start for me
Nearly did it about 10 years ago and funnily enough I dragged her to couples counselling etc and it was the best thing we ever did.
Only 3 days until we celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary.
I found out my ex was a serial adulterer, finally threw him out when my daughter was 6 months old
Was lucky enough to find a new guy who thought the world of my daughter, treated her like his own and we had another.
Forward 20 odd years and things went wrong, so we parted, luckily we never married and no solicitors involved in the
separation and and we split things equally. I dealt with the sale of the house and surprised him by getting more then he expected
Bought my own place with my share and have been here for 6 years, no plans to find anyone else quite happy on my own,
can do what I want with whoever I want life is great and I have no plans to change anything
Divorced twice.......... with current one now for 29 years this july.. third time lucky it would seem.
It's not the end of the world.. you never know whwtas around the corner