I have had 6 Nikon lenses, 2 Tamron lenses and a Sigma in my arsenal. Each company builds lenses to cover different price points themselves. So Nikon for example will build both cheaper lenses and more expensive ones. It you compare a cheaper kit lens, say the 18-55 in build quality with the Nikon 105mm f2.8 VR then it would look like they were made by different companies. The 105 is looks like it was made out of a solid piece of metal by a blacksmith (and weights like that too!) whereas the 18-55 feels like it was mass produced in a plastics factory. Comparing the 18-55 to the 18-200vr and the difference is LESS but the metal of the 18-200 gives it a better feel and again build quality appears better.
Sigma too has its levels of build quality and will produce cheaper lenses for different niche product areas. I only have a single Sigma lens which is the Sigma 20mm f1.8 D EX DG. This is a well built lens with decent optics and at about £500-600 new is not a cheap alternative but a well specified an useful addition.
I have only had a couple of Tamron lenses, a 55-200 (bought new from FITP for £39 !!!!, which I did use on my second body but got rid of when the D200 became my second body) and the 28-80 adaptall2 lens. These were like chalk and cheese, the 28-80 was again a metal body and clearly built to a high standard but the 55-200 was built out of cheap plastic (but down to a really affordable price and still very useable).
Yes both Tamron and Sigma are probably, on average, built to a lesser standard than the Nikon lenses but what are you doing with them? If you are a pro using them every day and joining one scrum of pros after another clambering for the picture that will make this months mortgage payment then you pay the extra. If you have the money and WANT the extra little bit of quality then, again, you pay the extra (like I did with the Nikon 105mm f2.8vr over the cheaper alternative).
Just don't be automatically put off.
Oh and ask on here about SPECIFIC lenses. You would be hard pressed to find many NORMAL lenses that someone on here has not got or had!