I don`t give a toss so much nowadays as even I have become tired of the dummy spitting,and the same people getting offended at the slightest comment with regards to C&C.In fact it has now got to the stage where people are wrapped up in cotton so much to protect their feelings,it is not even worth giving opinions about anything for fear you have upset somebody in some small way
I agree with Rich and would add my personal views as follows:
Unfortunately unless you look into each "case" carefully it is difficult to know what is
mean't by what has been
said in maybe 50% of the postings and why such comments have been made.
I have seen and see what I regard as disguised hypocrisy in comments from a number of members of this forum
A link to this post has been put in the Bird Section warning members who post in that section - maybe bringing that section into the discussion/argument - I now find this sad as I do not see that there have been any recent problems ...... correct me if I am wrong?
As far as the Bird Section is concerned, constructive or what maybe some regard as "critical comments" have really stopped,
(especially from a technical standpoint), as they are just not worth making anymore - we can "thank" a number of members for this - IMHO much has been lost because of this and although we still see "good" images in the Bird Section, most are not particularly so when measured against what was expected, (and achieved?), say 12 months ago............ As such many posted images would benefit from critical comment which IMHO would help the OP. This has stopped and has generally been replaced by mediocre comments which say very little to help the OP........
the "learning process" has been stopped in it's tracks, but there are also other, more complicated reasons for this?
As someone said to me on here in the Bird Section, (forget who it was), "unless you have something nice to say, don't say anything" -
?IMHO, what use is that? - (I apologise now if that is a critical and unacceptable comment from me)....... and I now see many comments as ridiculess, repetitive and meaningless, but that is just my opinion and as such
I now stay out of the thread
unless you, (we), are very careful the Forum will be "dumbed down" to sugar sweetness ..... but again that is IMHO what many want
Sad really - IMHO, progress in the Bird Section has stopped and most of the postings are now flat and ordinary, as are the comments ....... if that is what is wanted, so be it ..... good luck to the people who have achieved this, (again I must apologise if this offends anyone) ....... I can understand why some members leave or post less frequently in the Bird section than they did before ...... apathy can easily creep in
apologises and IMHO now seem to be "obligatory" as a "starter" in any "critical" comments that you wish to make ... after a while, as Rich indicates, you just stop commenting and "couldn't care a toss"
(PS - just to put my comments in context - I have been suspended or banned twice - the first time I genuinely thought that I was helping the OP - not sure about the 2nd time - plus I have also had one "kind gentleman" posting publicly that I should be banned, obviously he felt that it was his forum and he should be able to decide who gets suspended and who does not, the forum does have an ignore button which should be used to moderate with a small "m")