how do you tell someone that they really arent welcome in your place??? we've tried the 'we're on the way out' and 'currently tied up' excuses but its not working.......
'her indoors' being a teacher has stupidly become friends with a woman accross the road who is currently training to become a teacher........ night and day i get home and shes here soaking up all the help in the world, drinking my tea/coffee, eating my biscuits, being fed. I walk in to have no dinner, no tea/coffee etc etc (you can see where this is going!!!)
couple of weeks back she come over about 10 am, for 'her indoors' to help her do some stupid assignment. at 1130 she had to go down the school to pick up little one so with the 'i need to go out excuse' she tried to usher her out the door..... but no... she persuaded 'her indoors' to stay to use our friggin internet and wait until she returned back for some more help.... 315 came by and the excuse of 'need to go and get the older ones' was used and again so persuaded 'her indoors' to stay. about 6pm i got home from work and she left- brilliant we thought, until 620 when she arrived back with her 3 kids, so more food was eaten etc etc (not happy- as she wasnt even invited) about 11pm she left and me and her indoors had a huge row saying it was never happening again....
the day after i go to work and the previous day happens identical again and when i arrive home im livid as cant do my work, nothing to eat, no milk for drinks- 'her indoors' has fed the world and not me again so about 11pm come and she buggered off again and ww5 errupted.......
the day after that i arrived home and she was there again- no kids when i arrived... in tears wanting sympathy (wasnt getting an ounce from me) as she'd missed her dead line day for her uni assignment by a week so it wouldnt be counted, and was an emotional wreck after the teacher at her placement school told her she wasnt suitable and was unfit to be a teacher... so she convinces 'her indoors' to look after her 3 kids, and then one of the three kids friends arrives aswell (without asking), why she went out and had a evening out to chill.....
so livid and having more rows finally we had a few days peace.....
that was until yesterday and today..... shes back- taking the bleeding uni to court for racism and god only knows what, now needing help from a qualified teacher etc etc and guess whos been persuaded to help out.... not been paid a penny- not gonna be paid a penny and yet im buying the whole friggin town food (that i dont know and dont want in my place)
How the hell do i get rid of her???
seriously life in prison for murder has gotta be less stressful and CHEAPER!!!!
rant over.... i'l go back to watching her have my biscuits and drink my tea with a smile on my face (fake one that it)
'her indoors' being a teacher has stupidly become friends with a woman accross the road who is currently training to become a teacher........ night and day i get home and shes here soaking up all the help in the world, drinking my tea/coffee, eating my biscuits, being fed. I walk in to have no dinner, no tea/coffee etc etc (you can see where this is going!!!)
couple of weeks back she come over about 10 am, for 'her indoors' to help her do some stupid assignment. at 1130 she had to go down the school to pick up little one so with the 'i need to go out excuse' she tried to usher her out the door..... but no... she persuaded 'her indoors' to stay to use our friggin internet and wait until she returned back for some more help.... 315 came by and the excuse of 'need to go and get the older ones' was used and again so persuaded 'her indoors' to stay. about 6pm i got home from work and she left- brilliant we thought, until 620 when she arrived back with her 3 kids, so more food was eaten etc etc (not happy- as she wasnt even invited) about 11pm she left and me and her indoors had a huge row saying it was never happening again....
the day after i go to work and the previous day happens identical again and when i arrive home im livid as cant do my work, nothing to eat, no milk for drinks- 'her indoors' has fed the world and not me again so about 11pm come and she buggered off again and ww5 errupted.......
the day after that i arrived home and she was there again- no kids when i arrived... in tears wanting sympathy (wasnt getting an ounce from me) as she'd missed her dead line day for her uni assignment by a week so it wouldnt be counted, and was an emotional wreck after the teacher at her placement school told her she wasnt suitable and was unfit to be a teacher... so she convinces 'her indoors' to look after her 3 kids, and then one of the three kids friends arrives aswell (without asking), why she went out and had a evening out to chill.....
so livid and having more rows finally we had a few days peace.....
that was until yesterday and today..... shes back- taking the bleeding uni to court for racism and god only knows what, now needing help from a qualified teacher etc etc and guess whos been persuaded to help out.... not been paid a penny- not gonna be paid a penny and yet im buying the whole friggin town food (that i dont know and dont want in my place)
How the hell do i get rid of her???
seriously life in prison for murder has gotta be less stressful and CHEAPER!!!!
rant over.... i'l go back to watching her have my biscuits and drink my tea with a smile on my face (fake one that it)