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I don't know whether you're agreeing or disagreeing with what I wrote.To be honest comments like this just prove that we still have a long way to go when it comes to real equality.

I don't know whether you're agreeing or disagreeing with what I wrote.To be honest comments like this just prove that we still have a long way to go when it comes to real equality.

Only a misogynist would agree with your original post.I don't know whether you're agreeing or disagreeing with what I wrote.![]()
That's strange, my wife agreed with it. Does that make her a misogynist? What about the 7 others who agreed with it? Are they misogynists too?Only a misogynist would agree with your original post.
Perhaps you need to explain your point better than.That's strange, my wife agreed with it. Does that make her a misogynist? What about the 7 others who agreed with it? Are they misogynists too?
Perhaps you just don't understand the point I was seeking to make?

That's a discussion for another thread. Owning a camera doesn't make one a photographer.Male - Female we are all photographers![]()

Besides ... given the number of people on here who endlessly pontificate and never post a photo, I'm not sure everyone owns a camera, let alone being photographersThat's a discussion for another thread. Owning a camera doesn't make one a photographer.![]()
Can I ask why you felt you had to hide being a female when you first joined?I'd better get my two pennyworth in before the thread closes then
Firstly SheClicks is not about women making themselves heard, and it is not a forum. They organise webinars, meet ups and competitions and have a Facebook Group. I believe it is about building women's confidence in themselves, photography and business. There are some great photographers in their membership and quite a few professional ones.
I joined SheClicks a while ago and I confess it didn't feel quite right to have a group that was female only, however I've enjoyed some free webinars - including the imposter syndrome and dealing with rejection ones. There was an excellent one by Rosie Lalonde on flower photography. I think it's now on YouTube for everyone to enjoy.
It was a while before I owned up to being female on here. It's interesting that @Jannyfox and I are the only 'open' females that have commented in this thread and we both have a background of being female in male dominated worlds.
I suppose I was nervous that I wouldn't be taken seriously. I also don't like confrontation. I was slightly nervous at the reception I would get with my comment, so I am thankful you are all kindCan I ask why you felt you had to hide being a female when you first joined?
That made me chuckle. I could write a bookThanks for posting @Bebop although you are at risk of spoiling a good argument with some actual facts and practical experience![]()
I feel I've often had to prove myself, but usually it just takes one thing and you're accepted.Humans are humans regardless of sex....and one woman said she thought a man had taken it.... so stereotyping comes from women too.
Some of these things are entirely natural/accidental. If you were the first female photographer and it was fairly common for the males to bring their wives for some reason — I am not necessarily saying it wasn’t ’bias’ though.When I visited one camera club with two male photographer friends, it was assumed that I was the partner of one of them.
Indeed they are and I absolutely love that there are little girls in my football photographs, that women can join the Antarctic Survey, that men can knit etc. etc. We have made progress.Humans are humans regardless of sex.
@sphexx Absolutely agree. I realised after I had joined that there was only one other woman in the club who wasn't there with a partner, so it put it into perspective and I forgave himSome of these things are entirely natural/accidental. If you were the first female photographer and it was fairly common for the males to bring their wives for some reason — I am not necessarily saying it wasn’t ’bias’ though.
It’s fairly common in my experience to be mistaken for others or for people to get your name wrong and so on and sometimes people make too much of it.
I realised after I had joined that there was only one other woman in the club who wasn't there with a partner, so it put it into perspective and I forgave him![]()
Oh, and prosopognosia, I haz itThe theory is that there is an area of the brain dedicated to facial recognition which can be non-functional to a greater or lesser degree in a small proportion of the population. I have driven past my daughter at a bus stop who was waving at me without recognising her.
There's the "Black people didn't feel pain like white people" one too. Unfortunately this is still about out there as a myth, and black people can be prescribed lower doses of painkillers because of it.Consider for a moment, in my living memory it was common knowledge that black people were less intelligent than white (I'm being generous in saying that it no longer exists). After all, look how few senior professionals are black. Women are not as good artists as men, look at how few make it to the top ranks. In all cases the speaker fails to realise that they themselves, all their history and social construct goes to create the situation.