Hi All...
I just wanted to let you know that CeeJay had a lovely birthday and Christmas and is still battling on...
He had a total so far of over 350 birthday cards and was so absolutely over the moon it was lovely to see... Huge thank you's indeed to everyone who helped out...
He slept through most of Christmas Eve and Christmas Day... Just a few hours of wakefulness with each... But Boxing Day was a really, really good day and he managed to be very much with it for about seven hours straight which he's not been able to do for literally weeks... His medical team haven't called him the Comeback Kid for nothing though - so far, he's broken just about every rule they know...
So although it has been sad from my perspective, seeing the family together and knowing it's the last one - it's also been amazingly lovely and uplifting for that same reason...
A few months ago I had a chat with CeeJay about a Memory Box... Not because he knows his prognosis but I slid it past him as something to put his special bits in... To save me really having to choose myself later on... That arrived in the post on Christmas Eve and the lady had done a fantastic job of painting it with the beach scene he wanted... I kinda looked at it, admired the artwork then looked over at him sleeping, back to the box and promptly burst into tears thinking that soon this lovely box would be all I'd have... A few hours later, he opened more birthday cards that were still arriving and his smile lit up the room... The kindness of strangers for an unknown lad has really helped to balance some of the more difficult emotions... For that, a simple 'thank you' just isn't enough...
We did have an hour together on Christmas Eve in the small hours of Christmas Day where I was able to move him to the armchair and he pursuaded me (real hardship of course!) to let him open a present early... I took some photos and if I can get them loaded up today I'll post them - he was bright as a button for it and it was a particularly lovely moment...
I hope everyone here had a lovely Christmas with smiles, love and some peace...
Ann-Marie x